Do You Guys Like To Host or Would You Rather Providers To Host

Kieva's Avatar
  • Kieva
  • 09-14-2025, 01:48 PM
Hey guys hit me up and let me know your thoughts on my topic.
I prefer to host because providers are usually at some sketchy place, and I like having my car safe.
A nice, safe, secure, high-end hotel!
(Vehicle security ... no problem!)
I've rendezvoused with My ATF 78x!
Nothin' but smooth sailing!
jajake56's Avatar
When I first started in this hobby the ladies would charge less for an outcall, presumably because they would not have to pay for the room. Now outcalls are more presumably for travel ect. I'll take which ever was a better deal for me.
Yoni Man's Avatar
I typically prefer to host, just from the standpoint of decent hotel and parking. I also like to shower immediately before and after. Having to dry off with a wash cloth or my t shirt, because of no clean towels gets old.


I would like to see outcalla touch less for longer bookings.
LadyAnastasia's Avatar
I love this topic. In my experience it is preferred for the provider to have an incall.

I used to have a "permanent" incall but neighbors become such a pain. I don't care how nice of a neighborhood you are in, people and ring cameras notice multiple men coming to your door everyday.

When I get a large hotel, no one knows me and they won't see me tomorrow. I'm low volume and stay to myself.

Outcalls are the best, one person to one door. Low overhead. Downside is unpredictable environment.
Yoni Man's Avatar
When I get a large hotel, no one knows me and they won't see me tomorrow. I'm low volume and stay to myself.

Outcalls are the best, one person to one door. Low overhead. Downside is unpredictable environment. Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

From provider standpoint, is there anything that could be done to put you more at ease on an outcall?
ahab11's Avatar
Something happen around 2018 and Providers became flaky, I know Providers say it's the guys who are flaky.

The thought of driving 45 minutes or longer only to get ghosted is a disappointment on so many levels.

I went to Outcalls and that's probably where I will stay, there are some exceptions, but I prefer a Provider who is a 5 MILF who will do an OC versus an 8 Stunner that might ghost me upon arrival.
Prefer to go see the young lady. Even though I am single (widower) I live in a nice Plano subdivision with neighbors that might have more than an attentive gaze. I don't need that kind of drama/gossip/BS.
When I'm on the road outcall
Home area - incall
Joddxxx's Avatar
Incalls are much more better for me. I have a noisy neighbor that sits on her porch and likes to gossip. She likes to talk to strangers and complains about everything, especially to the mail man. As the conversation would start, “I saw this blonde hair woman with big boobs walked into the house, and immediately they were smooching, it was gross. They were smooching all over the place, outside the house, inside the house, on the roof, so I had to use holy water to vanish the monster away.” It’s an exaggeration, but this is crap I have to deal with my neighbor.
I like a nice incall in a busy apartment complex. I think a dedicated incall is best if you can swing it. A nicely stocked bar and a shower facility. I know some of the nicest incall apartments were shared by a few girls.
nookiebandit's Avatar
The best incalls are:

A provider's home where she has a clean bathroom and supplies, along with good parking.

An apartment with the same.

A hotel with a back or side entrance.



The worst incalls:
Nasty home, bad neighborhood.
Anything where I or my vehicle can be surrounded from three sides (excluding cul de sacs)
Place that draws attention or seems sketchy such as lots of cameras: https://www.fox10phoenix.com/news/ph...3ae300018e8135
High rise hotels with parking fees or keycard only elevators - side entrances.
Ilike69's Avatar
Personally I prefer incall. After some bad experiences early on in the hobby, I said no more incall at my place. If I do an incall I have to get a hotel. That just doesn’t increases my cost significantly and then is a huge pain if the lady has to cancel.