Advice for first timer

I am planning on going to the strip club for the first time this weekend. From the reviews seems like baby dolls is one of the best options. Any advice for a first timer. How much should i be paying per song. How much money should I bring. Is cash the best. Any other advice is much appreciated. Feel free to just reply or PM me. Thanks

Man, first time, huh? You brought back memories. But, considering that… bring what you are willing to spend in cash. Don’t even think about going to the atm. Each dance is $20 or $30, so choose wisely, sometimes the 2nd or 3rd sexiest girl is best. Never get a dance from a girl who comes by in the 1st 10 minutes.

You might find the first stickied thread in this sub to be helpful:

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=530229

Dances are $20 at BDD. Don’t pay more. Bring whatever cash your budget allows as ATM fees are about $8 (we all justify if we have to lol). There’s something for everyone in there so just hang out and check out the scene for a while. You’ll get bombarded by a ton of Cubans who’ll ask “want dance”? Just say not right now and they’ll go away. Don’t expect the activities that go on here as automatic. Plenty of girls are in there just to make their cash and move on (especially this time of year) but there are plenty of gems as well. Just have fun! It’ll be super crowded if you go on a Friday or Saturday night but that also means there’s tons to look at

Be prepared to walk out without getting what you're looking for; whether that's a dance from the girl you want or an easy nut from whatever girl it may be. This helps prevent your Little Man from making decisions for you. Think of this first trip as a learning experience, and nothing more.

Good luck to you.


Don't fall for

the more dances you get, hon, the dirtier it will get

or let anyone talk you into

It will be more fun if you get us a VIP room upstairs.

If a dancer does that and you are not interested in her, say NO.


If you are interested in her (as in getting extras), make sure you negotiate first and agree to time, donation and activities.


Don't just

oh really? Let's go!

without any clear objectives and agreements.


finally when you do get dances, don't let the girl start dancing as soon as sit down in the dance area.


Take control, let her know to wait until the next song.


Many of them dancers know the song that's on it's only 1 minute left and they try to start dancing and then count that as one $20 dance.


HELL NO!


Count the dances too.

Some dancers like to scam you, you had 2 dances, they said you had 3 or 4.

Only bring cash in, don't even take a card inside.

Don't wear jeans, wear lightweight pants like a light fitting khaki or something

Get in good with a bartender, they'll put you on game and Enjoy!!

Every time a hooker names a price, offer half. If she doesn't take it, move along to the next girl. Someone attractive enough will take your offer.

And as others have said, leaving with a pocket full of twenty's is better than leaving with empty pockets and a full ball sack. Many will do that to you.

Thank you all for the advice I definitely would have made some mistakes and spent more money this weekend if I hadn’t asked. What is the best time to go? Early afternoon or night?

2-5pm is less crowded and has plenty of players. I don't do nights as there are too many Indian guys gawking as you try to get a handjob upstairs.

If u are looking for FS that is not the place. It will cost u way more than it should. Some will only do that in VIP. Also lots of GPS in there. A 5$$ girl will ask for 1$$$$. If u really like someone ask for their number and if she provides service outside the club. I’ve had a few lady’s I’ve seen OTC but they were GPS. Also one girl I seen in the club will do FS behind the stage but only during the day. Been trying to get her to do OTC. They will want u to see them often in the club before they can trust you. ROI

Know that there are:

1. Good ones out there
2. Bad/Shitty ones out there

Focus on the good ones. There are some amazing women there, don’t worry or get flustered by the bad ones (you will run in to them, it is inevitable. It sucks when they’re hot too.)

Other than that man, it’s pretty straightforward. Not rocket science. These girls are literally incentivized to get you off because of money.

Have fun.

Read reviews on the Dallas clubs on TUSCL too. There’s a wealth of information on that site.

All the above are great tips.
1. it is your Money be a big boy and think with your "big" head and never with the little head!
2. All they want is your $$ so never think you are something special to them, Your money is but not so much you!
3. Ok to say no in a nice way. I do it all the time! Be polite and let them introduce themself and when they ask if you wand company or dances and you do not" "no thank you beautiful I am just not ready yet!"
4. if you find one you like. Take her for a test drive! if you like and things get hot then talk about the damage before the fun begins. Never assume anything because the will take you to the cleaners. They want your Money and not you remember!
5. Relax and have fun! Do not over drink cause they will walk all over you!
6. Trust is not a word in these places. So do not do it or believe it!
7. 44 years ago was my first visit in OKC and still remember.

My first strip club was BDD back at the old location over 20 years ago. It is by far my favorite club. I like it best when it first opens on a weekend. Lots of girls with very few customers yet.


All the above advice is spot on. Take cash. Count several bundles of 5 $20 folded together. You have enough and can pull out only what you need to pay. Avoid having to open a wallet with lots of cash or pulling out way more than you plan to spend. A few times girls have tried to pinch me for more than we agreed and being able to pull out 5 $20's and saying this is all I have left usually makes them leave you alone.