How Long should a BJ take?

likydsplit's Avatar
Honest question here, girls.


Assuming he is hard and ready to go - how long do you expect a blowjob to take until he cums?

Not counting intentional efforts to keep him from cumming.
Sherry of DFW's Avatar
each guy is different---some guys cum in 2 minutes...some take 45 minutes to come---there is NO average or normal time ---not predictable
LustyBustyGina38FF's Avatar
Why put a time on it?.. Just let it flow!!
pmdelites's Avatar
or are you asking ...
how quickly can you make a guy cum from fellatio?
how long can you fellate a guy before he cums uncontrollably?
how long can you fellate a guy before he tells you to stop?

or something else?


i prefer she be into it, enjoy it, pride herself on it more than her just sucking on lil delites to get him to cum as fast as possible.
like 20-30mins!!
Sir Lancehernot's Avatar
For a woman: Obviously, the less time the better. Say 15 seconds.


For a man: Right up to the point where further delay begins to invoke the law of diminishing returns, where you've put it off for so long that now it's going to require work to make it happen.
Ultimate Jessica's Avatar
I guess it depends on you or it can depend on who you are with. Lots of worshiping can be done before you let it go. I kinda like to take my time..lol!
That can be a good thing or a bad thing..idk
GOOD ATTITUDE =Less time
Enthusiasm=Less
Experienced and know what HE likes=Less time
Eye contact/dirty talk=Less time

Anything else=MORE TIME
The Queen Sophie's Avatar


Eye contact/dirty talk=Less time
Originally Posted by Blavish
Who's doing the talking🤔
How does the one with the dick in her mouth talk dirty without sounding like she's at the dentist??
  • JROD
  • 12-29-2025, 11:54 AM
Sophie…..Now that’s funny!
CG2014's Avatar
2 hours and no cheating: i.e. NO HANDS!
As long as it takes until jizz erupts from the penis hole
GregN's Avatar
  • GregN
  • 12-29-2025, 02:23 PM
2 hours and no cheating: i.e. NO HANDS! Originally Posted by CG2014
Some prefer the addition of hands.

Best I every had was 2 hours of bliss.
I have wondered the same as OP. I've never been much of a BJ guy for various reasons. And I tend to take awhile to finish at all levels and can actually go for hours if needed.

But how long is reasonable...15-20mins?
DirrrtyOldMan's Avatar
each guy is different---some guys cum in 2 minutes...some take 45 minutes to come---there is NO average or normal time ---not predictable Originally Posted by Sherry of DFW
So hard to say, and each time is different, too. I'm sometimes a 2 minute guy, which I hate. I'm more often a 10 minute guy, and try to hold off to do... more. Sometimes I'm a 20 minute guy, and am happy for it to end then that way.
  • cosoj
  • 01-25-2026, 04:53 AM
Same here, but if she sits on my face at the same time, within 10 minutes.