Screening req's ???

I do a lot of hobbying in NY and TX and they are usually super easy to find info on providers and screen. Miami on the other hand is proving to be a real bitch. Providers want my real name, employment info, ID... i mean just really a ton of uncomfortable stuff. Also this forum doesnt really deal with FL alot, so idk where to find good info on providers there.

How can i screen with these ladies without giving away my identity?

Just about every provider who cares about her safty is going to want some info.
Use you refes from NY TX.. I take out of state refes and visitin Fort LL next week ..

How can i screen with these ladies without giving away my identity?

How do you get screened WITHOUT giving away your identity??

12 different guys can all use the same handle/email/references so how is a lady to know she's actually screening and seeing YOU without seeing your lovely face next to your state-issued ID?

I feel like I'm missing something here...?