Should I stay or should I go?

In light of the recent events, clearly studios aren’t a “safe bet”. What are your thoughts on independent providers? How “safe” are those if you use TER, Eros, Tryst, etc.

Asking for a friend
You definitely need to vet indies more.
You definitely need to vet indies more. Originally Posted by poon_69
Maybe you could vet them for us, officer
Maybe you could vet them for us, officer Originally Posted by 643_DP
Be careful or I’ll arrest you.
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Much prefer indies from a safety standpoint. They are more expensive, but much less than a legal retainer. I need to see reviews before I pull the trigger, unless I get a good feeling based on a referral from a trusted source, or p411.

I don’t contact random (ie, unreviewed women) ads from LC, Tryst or other ad sites.

Put in the sweat equity and independents are generally the least risky option.
Much prefer indies from a safety standpoint. They are more expensive, but much less than a legal retainer. I need to see reviews before I pull the trigger, unless I get a good feeling based on a referral from a trusted source, or p411.

I don’t contact random (ie, unreviewed women) ads from LC, Tryst or other ad sites.

Put in the sweat equity and independents are generally the least risky option. Originally Posted by TinMan
This Veteran Hobbyist is trying to keep you safe. These are risky times. Invest in P411, do your homework. Follow people you trust. If not, save up for bail and put your lawyer on speed-dial.
If Indy's started following the Studios format of cleanliness, menu (Catholic), Rates, and Trust worthy. Which is the most sought after and popular.
Ladies of the night are going the way of housing… the safer the more expensive
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Ladies have been working in Dallas for 150 years. All ladies are paid for sex. Its just a matter of when and how you pay. Many are just trying to get by until something better comes along.
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Ladies have been working in Dallas for 150 years. All ladies are paid for sex. Its just a matter of when and how you pay. Many are just trying to get by until something better comes along. Originally Posted by Bestman200600
Most aren’t felonies, though. Although some husbands will tell you it should be a crime the way their wives treat sex.
Most aren’t felonies, though. Although some husbands will tell you it should be a crime the way their wives treat sex. Originally Posted by TinMan
Never been married, but I hear this so much that sex drive just falls off a cliff when people get married
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When your paying 3500+ a month for no sex you are screwed.
You guys are playing the game all wrong. If you’re paying 3500 a month to be married with no sex, you’re a moron.
Never been married, but I hear this so much that sex drive just falls off a cliff when people get married Originally Posted by haskellham
There’s truth in this… you’ve done a good job to not go there and therefore you don’t know what you’re missing or not missing