Are you more or less like to see someone with a sad story. Like divorce, bf died, car died, mom did, her birthday, got ripoff last time, exter horny, COVID.
Personally I'd probably avoid the "sad story" crowd initially. Lets be honest, thats not why we set up dates with the ladies. No one wants a bummer date. How, I have had a couple of ladies over the years where we became friends and even friends+. At that point you'll probably learn everything about someone and there life. If they matter to you, your going to get that as well, the bad with the good. But no, I wouldn't see someone a second time who put off a "downer" vibe.....
Definitely less. From experience I was seeing a sob story girl. In the end I learned the truth. Very good manipulator . I was somewhat to blame. learned my lesson. So whenever I meet someone new and she starts going into person details I cut that shit off. You get burned once you learn your lesson lol.
I don’t need to know your daughter is a cutter and your ex is the most horrible person ever. As soon as I hear personal life shit I try to steer the subject to something else.