Fellow Hobbyists, What keeps you movitated?

Ladies and Gentlemen,


I'm having a crisis of motivation.
So I'm sincerely asking, "what keeps you guys going?"


-Veggie

As in regards to what ?

Nothing, just I have to just give up on life. It cut my anxiety way down.
People want to be high motivated, have lot to worry about.

In regards to life, work, the hobby. Why do we keep trying? Are we chasing something we once had? Are we running as fast as we can just to stay in the same place?

I'm just looking for a reason to keep one foot in front of the other.

-Veggie

sounds like you may have low T . Have you had it checked ? If you cannot get motivated by all the beautiful women on this board ( and everywhere else ) I don't know what will !

Interesting thought. I'll get the testosterone tested.

This hobby will beat you down.

Scheduling can be a pain and then when you think you have a date something falls thru at the last minute.

Fortunately I can do Outcalls and that takes out some of the guess work but I still have to have patience with these girls.

Many a time I drive an hour to meet someone only to either be kept waiting 30 min or more in a parking lot or ghosted all together.

My take: every so often you schedule with a woman (yes woman, not girl) who just gets in your head and provides an experience that you will take to your grave. It's the old psychology of random reinforcement of something makes it the most difficult to leave (think gambling) There are encounters I can remember vividly from decades ago. Just ride the sine wave. Go slow when you're down and increase the tempo when the muses are favoring you.

Hope this is what you were asking about.

I look forward to learning new things and visiting new places. Pussy wise I’m always looking for the ones that partake in my fetish. I enjoying helping people so that’s fulfilling.

When I first started this hobby it was about being with a woman of every ethnic group. Now I look for providers who can match my kinks. My best experiences have been with women that I see on a regular basis. You learn what gets you off from each other.

Sorry to hear you are feeling low! I think low T is a great observation.

You’re not alone. For most of us, it’s not motivation—it’s habit and having a reason, even a small one. Some days you just do a little and that’s enough.

Sometimes life can feel overwhelming. I think checking your testosterone levels is a great idea. In the interim: get out of bed one foot at a time. Always shower in the morning, so you will feel refreshed at the beginning of the day. Don't focus on the negative: try to stay positive (easier said than done, I know).
And take one day at a time. In addition to checking your testosterone, you should look into seeing a therapist, so you can let everything out without any judgment. Keeping things, even simple things, bottled up only adds to the anxiety of not feeling motivated.