Ladies in public with older men

Ladies say mid 40's and down ....how do you feel about being seen in public with older men
My reason for asking .... I had a quick trip out of town and decided to see a lady that frequently comes to me ..... I have seen her at her incall before so we are not strangers
She suggested the day before that after bcd we go to lunch... Which was great with me .... When the time came she said she couldn't afford to be seen with a man that much older.....
She's 35 I'm 62 .... I'm not attractive but I'm not butt ugly , I'm in pretty good shape , and I try always to conduct myself as a gentleman ....
This thread is not about me but rather to find out are younger ladies ashamed to be seen on public with older men and do we put you on the spot by being in public with you

Honestly babe....Whenever I see an older gent with a really younger gal in public....I usually guess she is either an escort or a sugar baby


personally I do not have a problem because i am older.....but then again I can "spot a hooker from a mile away"...lol


I would be proud to be seen with most of my clients{especially Skeeter}

I love being with the older gents,they are more muture and know how to treat a lady.It's all about having fun and enjoying life.

^@ Dallas. lol Ditto^

By any means it is not a shameful feeling. It's a feeling of: everyone knows what's up.
I have been on dates in public with older men and as much as I played it off, It was hard to ignore the fact that we were a spectacle.

I don't mind so much when I'm out to town. But I couldn't imagine seeing any of the many people I know in my hometown.

Hope this helps you understand her position.

I also agree with wildcat older gents are the best.

I'm just under 40, but I agree I've always enjoyed older men. I admit when I see a drastic age difference I start wondering which provider she is, lol.

Well, depends I guess. I agree with Dallas - providers spot other providers a mile off.

Last night, I was at dinner with a client...and whaddaya know - members of his office were at a table right behind us. He & I had already discussed "We are___ and I introduce you as ___"

In my hometown, lunch or dinner will probably be more of a "friendly affair" publicly. Especially if my companion is also from Memphis - we never know who we are going to run into.

Perfectly fine to lay out the public persona: you and your companion can be sitting at a bar doing shots with his coworkers 5 feet behind you & still be discussing his particular BJ requirements, whether or not blue, black or red heels will look better in the next video, the environment and where is the best place to get a transmission rebuilt - and nobody would know. Demeanor & perception. Besides, sometimes it's fun to go out all "respectable" looking and acting, but the two of you know....<just dont drop the wireless vibe remote FFS!>

If I were the sweet young thing I used to be, I would be honored to be seen on your arm! I was friends with a gent when I was in my 20's and he was your age then. I thought he was so cool! I didn't find out til much later that he was a millionaire! We had been friends for so long, I'd seen him go through 3 wives! I didn't find out about his financial status until his 3rd wife! I used to joke with him, I could never catch him between wives!
Your a gawd dern good lookin man! We would be broke because I wouldn't let you out of the bedroom!

Skeeter you know how I feel based on our text conservation yesterday. See you soon baby...

I actually prefer older men. Yes sometimes there are looks but I always have fun with it as long as my "friends" are game. LOL

Yes, I can spot a hooker/dancer a mile away...

Sure, a lot of people might be on to what's up, but then, in civilian life I've had business and (non romantic) social reasons to be in public with women who are 15-25 years younger than me.

I have a great SD who is in his 60's. He actually gets onto me for not being extremely affectionate in public.. granted he is currently with someone and is very politically involved. I thought I was being helpful, keeping away from drama but I think he likes the "showing off" aspect. I do whatever cus let's face it. He pays my bills

I take my daughter out to eat once in a awhile, I never notice any funny looks. How a lady dresses can be a dead give away.

And some wonder why they get harassed going into a hotel!

I take my daughter out to eat once in a awhile, I never notice any funny looks. How a lady dresses can be a dead give away. Originally Posted by rpmsouth

I take my daughter out to eat once in a awhile, I never notice any funny looks. How a lady dresses can be a dead give away. Originally Posted by rpmsouth

So are mannerisms, chemistry, conversation. intimacies. Non verbal communication speaks volumes. I could be in a business suit and anyone with more than just the 5 basic senses can tell what type of relations we have from across the room. It's human nature.

just my .02

I usually wear a sexy tight dress and heels when I am with him, if he is gonna get busted I better be lookin' worth it!! As for taking your daughter out, it's probably a little different.. he likes to hold hands, kiss etc. in public. There is no denying what's going on with us so I just own it.

I couldn't give a shit, less... what anyone thinks about me, in public.

Fuggem.... their social limitations are their own...

My S.O. is 17 yrs younger than me.... guess I'm used to it!

dirty olde man...