Tryst and Seeking - a tale of two websites

For a while, I thought Tryst was great. It still is a good site. Lately, I've noticed that scammers are becoming more prevalent - or at least I think they are scammers. They list the area you are searching as their home. The area codes never match. The ladies have never advertised there before. And of course, they require a hefty deposit. Let me know if anyone has ever paid the deposit and seen the lady. The other potential scam is an advertisement of them being in town, but they direct you to OnlyFans.

Seeking - you must pay. Fine. I believe that behind that paywall are some fine ladies. To their credit, they want to be sugar babies. They are quick to tell you they won't PPM. So be ready to shell out a thousand a month if that's your play.

I am going to skip a review of Skip the Games. Anyone else have thoughts on these sites they want to share publicly?

I've only ever done ppm on seeking its not as good as it used to be though at least in my area

The first thing I always do on Tryst is search their number or name for reviews, and I pass if I can’t find anything. Also another red flag for me is that they “travel” extensively- like new city every two days, especially if they want a deposit. A deposit is another no-go for me.

I’ve used Seeking and Secret Benefits in the past with success. Secret Benefits is definitely a shady run website, but you can still find some jewels on there. I’ve been with about 10 different women from those websites in the last year or so. I tend to go for SBs in the 35-40 age range and always do PPM.

I've used both and put reviews of ladies on both.

Tryst has started to become a bit of mess with the scam & fake ads. The women offering $120 or $200 and hour are straight up scams normally. While 99% of the time a deposit is a scam there are occasions where I've done it and it turned out ok & even met up with the girl routinely aftwards. If they travel a lot that isn't really a turn off, since for some of these women it is their full time job and a deposit is just their way of securing a room for that stop and if no one bites then they just go onto the next city / stop on their tour list. I'd say any woman that asks for more than a room fee or room deposit for their fee is more than likely a scam or if their overall rates are shockingly low.

Seeking, its a bit of mixed bag. There are the ones that are looking to be a high dollar penpal and other that are willing to go all the way but they want you to take them out on a date first, so not exactly ready to just bed you down right off the bat. You don't have to spend thousands to get their clothes off but you do have to pay something to get the ball rolling. If you are looking for under the radar or super low volume types than Seeking and secret benefits really is your best bet.

I wonder how many women on Secret Benefits are real. Response times are poor compared to Seeking.

The ones that both view & send me a message tend to fairly quick with a response. Like within a day or 2. Now the ones I reach out to first or only send a message it's radio silence..