Frustrated with selection lately

I guess I’m getting too choosy in my advanced years. So many ads are clearly fake, or the ladies just don’t look very appealing. The few that do won’t return contact in any kind of remotely timely manner, and their idea of “upscale accommodations” are severely lacking.

It’s very frustrating for an old widower.

Thanks for the vent.
I hope you find the lady soon ♥️
Stormbreaker's Avatar
Yeah I know what you mean Ruston. But keep your head up and something will come around.
Yeah, and so many non premium looking ladies or premium looking ladies offering non premium service and asking for premium to super premium prices.
tuckahoe's Avatar
You are not getting too choosy. Things have changed from what they were 10+ years ago when we had more desirable ladies than I could get around to. There have always been scammers, but there are more of them now and far fewer trustworthy ladies.
Yes it’s not much to choose from in Arkansas. High prices and or not much to look at. You see some girls that are decent but they are $500 to $1000 or more. Crazy who pays this? Plus they seem to all want deposits. Crazy still some are giving them money up front. I’m curious to know how many are scammed by this. Just my rant for the day. Good luck.
Cherokeechief's Avatar
I'm surprised at how obese most of them are.
BBW is one thing but OMG
The thrill is gone. Not sure if I did way too much tail chasing back in the day, but it was sure fun. The girls are so so different, It ain't a FUN hobby anymore. No sure if I got too spoiled, way back, or have become a bit more financially sensible. Party on ladies and gentlemen, I am sitting this dance out.
ccriderridesagain's Avatar
I had at least 5 attractive ladies 10 years ago.
I'm past my prime but there was a time I would
just pick one a week or two at a time.
I agree with everyone. Guess I'm getting old and jaded. Too overpriced for what is offered. Wants deposits. Not that attractive. Don't know what GFE is. Definitely not like it used to be.
GPS, lack of real freaks, lack of quality. We were lucky, years ago we had some top tier visiting ladies that were coming into town every weekend, and they were motivated to do some serious draining on the boys. Many times I would book a early visitor and promise a true, factual review, if it was earned. Damn that worked out well for both parties involved. I guess I miss the visitors, lots of variety. Yes we do have a few gems. But years ago, it like being a kid in a giant candy store. A guy could find all flavors.
Thanks everyone. I’m glad to see it’s not just me and some sort of personal defect that is causing issues. It’s really sad. I miss visiting the likes of Sadie; Ms Randi; Jordan on the local scene (Randi was NWA, if I recall) . Naughty Nikki from Louisiana was a favorite of mine when she came to town.

It’s just not the same.
bladtinzu's Avatar
It is not just Arkansas.. Every where I travel it seems you have a choice. those with really deep "issues" that are really hard to hide or those that amount to harpooning a whale. Well minus Dallas and Houston but damn...
  • jaxar
  • 03-09-2026, 07:45 PM
Agree 100% with you. I too been on sidelines for years. Reward is not worth the risk or the high prices.
My biggest turnoff are the ones who aren't even into providing a decent illusion of passion. I can't do anything with a bad attitude or someone that's clearly distracted. That's been my biggest gripe lately and the ones I do trust to have a good time with have started to become less dependable when trying to connect. It's all too exhausting now. I'm glad I'm traveling this week where there should be a better experience I hope.