seriously - some folks need to go to remedial training (I didn't say stupid study) on how search engines work and they are all the SAME - just different levels of activity they are programmed to find.
Basically once you hit "submit" or "enter" or any variation thereof ==> you have now created bot bait. Given enough data - engines can wend their way into areas we praise as being "private" and just for us kids at the neat kids' table.
Lola Lei - please stop posting your number on ads and ask gentlemen who see you to refrain from posting it. In the interim - go to the main search pages (Google, Bing, etc.) and look for the area similar to this:
http://privacy.microsoft.com/en-us/default.mspx
Contact them as directed FROM YOUR PERSONAL account and let them know you feel someone is using your personal telephone without your permission and ask them to please stop "searching your number" on routine sweeps. They will look at the numbers which is fine. Once you tell them that as of a specific date - you would like it stopped---they will turn-off that search feture and AS LONG AS IT DOESN'T SHOW AGAIN after that date on sites such as eccie and others ---they will go away.
Search engines and their train fill-up quickly.
And obviously -- once you secure a hobby phone -- everything gets better.
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Nena's advice is outstanding and that's what I use..