Alexis........My Two Cents

Because I don't need to worry about being among what has been referred to as "the best people in town" I'm free to speak my mind. And I think this needs to be said. First let me state I've never seen Alexis, though I have had the pleasure of spending time with her friend,a former provider herself. Our only conversations regarding Alexis were that we should play as a threesome. Sadly I didn't take her up on the offer, and now she's retired.

I take Wanderingseer's account of his dream on face value. Though I find his tone somewhat vindictive......but that's me. I'm glad he posted it. The point is Alexis has admited here on eccie, that she has had problems, and has no called, no showed in the past. Weather she can overcome these issuses who knows. Only time will tell. It is a legitimate concern though. It's also true she was part of what I call the 'blood bath" in the closing days of ASPD. Though of all places in Texas and not here.........go figure.

Which brings me to the next point. If you are going to make an accusation about someone that can damage their character or their livelihood. You better be able to prove IT. Otherwise it's just a rumor, an assumption....And we all know how the saying goes. Again it appears Alexis can NCNS we all know this by now. She hardly the first and unfortunatelly not the last to do so....Hell this particular lady I hold in the highest regard did the very same thing to me on what was to be our first date.

Bottom line is if you don't want to see Alexis don't. There are plenty of other women. But let's stop the rumors and the attacks. Lets take the high road,who knows maybe even be gentlemen LOL....A lady that I know quite well, and I were having a conversation once about the hobby. She made this statement "this isn't the easiest thing to do, that I have to get myself in a certain state of mind" Something that has stuck with me.

If this makes me a white knight so be it.

I wish I could find my post about my previous ncns issues. Basically it stated that I was well aware of them and took steps to rid my life of certain things (people that like to cause drama, health issues, car issues, etc.) I have not had a ncns since. People like to jump on bandwagons. People that I have simply not been able to fit in to my schedule or weren't willing to fulfill my screening requirements have said that I ncns'd them. Yes, in the past I have ncns'd a few people, but not to the extent it has been made out to seem and like I said, I have taken steps to resolve those issues.

That review is fake and a blatant personal attack on me. I reported it as such but nothing was done. As for the insinuating drug use? All I have to say is people in glass houses should not throw stones. Yes, I have a past, as does everyone else. My past was before I began this hobby and is exactly that. The past.

Thank you for stepping up. I have not met you but it is very much appreciated

I would also like to add that the "peace out" ending of that post is something that was used at the end of correspondence when I cut all communication with someone about a week ago. I only shared the fact that this person signed the end of that message with two people so the list of who this reviewer is is VERY short. It also assures me that I made the right decision by ceasing all communication with that person. It saddens me that it had to be done but it was necessary.

All I will say on this thread is, when I get NC/NS from a gentleman, I DON'T post about it in the Ladies section and I don't see the need to do it unless it gets out of hand. I respect the fact that stuff happens and I move on from it.
Unless a provider NC/NS's you a couple of times, then I don't see why she should get flamed for it. That's MY 2 cents on the subject. If it's a recurring thing, then I understand completely.

Thank you Alexxxis for adding your two cents, it is appreciated and i agree with Growler that we all need to make our own conclusions in regards to whom we meet. It is refreshing that we have a place to go and air our issues but sometimes it gets out of hand. It is always better to communicate before things turn south. Thanks again to both Growler and Alexxxis.

I would also like to add that the "peace out" ending of that post is something that was used at the end of correspondence when I cut all communication with someone about a week ago. I only shared the fact that this person signed the end of that message with two people so the list of who this reviewer is is VERY short. It also assures me that I made the right decision by ceasing all communication with that person. It saddens me that it had to be done but it was necessary. Originally Posted by Alexxxis

Personally, I sign my posts "Peace out" all the time. Check my prior posts. And I'm not the one you cut communication with last week (as far as I know). It really doesn't indicate anything one way or the other.

I had already posted my $0.02 in the Review thread:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=30100

I proposed in the review thread that we move the discussion here to give Alexxxis the opportunity to address any concerns herself.

The great thing about what we all do is there is a "code" that is followed, or at least we hope that is followed. When someone comes on and writes up a review and uses it as a personal attack, that is certainly not following the "code". You can be honest, you can say you didn't have a good time, you can say you wouldn't recommend someone. However, when you are clearly using the forum to damage someone, that is unacceptable.

Now from all the attention that she is getting, you would think she is either the best thing since sliced bread or the devil reincarnated. Having spent time with her and checking for horns and a tail, I can tell you, she isn't the devil. I am pretty sure she has an idea of who has started all of this and other then a few attempts to defend herself, she hasn't outted anyone or given information that would compromise anybody. She has admitted her problems, she has owned up to them. She has explained herself.

Now matter how much the ladies enjoy what they do, I am sure there are times it is difficult. We all have rough patches in life. There are times that things just don't go our way. Had she denied everything that was said about her, I would say yea...maybe there is a problem. However, she stood up, admitted what had happened in the past and is trying to move past it. For that she deserves a big that a girl.

I am not a "knight" or whateve term is used. I am however someone that realizes that at the end of the day, these ladies are people. With real feelings, real emotions, real lives and real issues. At the very least we should respect that and them.

"Alexxxis can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but she can not fool all of the people all of the time."

You've only seen what Alexxxis wanted you to see.

She is very good at manipulating the truth. And people.

You may not intend to be a white knight, but you are behaving like one.

lol This is the last thing Im going to say about the whole thing (I have moved away from the Hobby...but like to keep in touch with a few friends made along the way) By your own admission you have met her once in a group setting. You said that you have never spent one on one time with her.

So, having never spent one on one time with her, how is it that you are such an expert on her manipulation and truth telling skills? If you are going on by what others have said, well then that is hear say and we all know that can be misconstrued rather easliy. I am not behaving like a white knight, canadian mountie, easter bunny or savior.

She and I have a friendship. Simple as that. Nothing more, nothing less. I value her as a person, as I do with all of my friends. If you and I were friends and someone was coming after you, I would come to your defense as well. Would that make me your white knight?

We all need to put ourselves in the others shoes. If someone was out to destroy or harm my job or career (and they have tried before) because they had a personal problem with me, I would be fighting mad too. Let it be, move on and enjoy life before someone calls Jerry Springer for cryin out loud.

Alexxxis has chosen to be very forthcoming about her past mistakes whilst maintaining the decency and decorum that arealwingdinger mentions, which goes to the heart of this endeavor - discretion.

The "code" we all count on to move forward safely with those we feel we can trust in a business wrought with suspicion, greed and peril has not been broken by her. That counts for something in my book. That counts for actually, A LOT in my book.

I've had more than my share of second, third and fourth chances in my life. I've known many a lady that has overcome similar issues as those Alexxxis has admitted to struggling with . . . I not only applaud her for her honesty but her willingness to move on and away from those things that she has found burdensome in her past.

I will say that I am very afraid of the precedent the replies to the review set, if indeed the situation is as Alexxxis describes, and people are interpreting a no call, no-show and reporting it as such if they didn't pass screening, etc. I do not have the ability to read the entire review, I cannot speak to the veracity of the comments or whether or not they would be interpreted by me as to be vindictive. I do agree, as I have said publicly in another thread here on ECCIE that reviews, IMHO, are a double edged sword and although they may be necessary for a new lady, they typically become less important (requisite) as a provider / Escort maintains a level of service over time that is found to be commensurate with those earlier statements (reviews). She (Alexxxis) has admitted that she had issues that had caused people to have experiences that may have deviated from her standard "norm" that she had established. If there is an issue, it appears she is addressing it. If it continues, I am sure we'll hear otherwise.

I had the privilege to work with Alexxxis at Plaza Escorts, and although we never worked "together", we contracted at the same time and I never once heard Master Dennis, or anyone else in that office (Chuck, Dale, any call-taker, etc.) say a single negative thing about her in any way. In fact, it was just the opposite. And further, until late last year, around December, when discussions began to surface regarding her, she was (in my view) an established provider that was going about her business.

If there has been or had been an issue since, it seems as though she has acquiesced to the fact that it needs (needed) to be remedied.

From that, I would believe, IMHO, we could all move along until such time as the situation is proven out by further review comments by another party.

With everything considered that we ALL (hobbyist, provider, Escort alike) have to take into account everyday to stay safe, the rubbernecking regarding this issue is slowing down traffic for everyone.

Kisses,

- Jackie

Well now that the smoke is starting to clear I just wanted to give my "4 cents". I do not leave reviews nor is this a review by strictly my 4 cents worth.

1. Alexis has been more than honest in her reply.

2. Nobody is perfect so get over it.

3. If she took the time to see you consider yourself fortunate.

4. I consider myself fortunate.

Omahan is it not about time to close this thread?

Chit happens! Let's move on to NQ/NS'ed.

I posted earlier about a nc/ns in November.

Having read of Alexxxis's offer of deal if prior nc/ns posters would book an appointment I accepted.

I don't ever do reviews but I can tell you that Alexxis is; funny, sexy, smart, very very attractive, professional, and OMG skilled.

We are new friends and for that I am grateful.

Today I can report that I am a man at peace.

Cat

"Like a wisp of smoke, like a shade of gray in a black and white world."

I posted earlier about a nc/ns in November.

Having read of Alexxxis's offer of deal if prior nc/ns posters would book an appointment I accepted.

I don't ever do reviews but I can tell you that Alexxis is; funny, sexy, smart, very very attractive, professional, and OMG skilled.

We are new friends and for that I am grateful.

Today I can report that I am a man at peace. Originally Posted by catnipdipper

A wise man once told me "you can't talk your way out of a problem that you behaved your way into". Sounds like she is behaving her way out.

Another dozen reports like this with no drama would go a long way towards repairing her reputation. I hope she gets there.

everyone say ahhh now cheaper is going to say want is needed we deal with women here they do things base on feelings if after they talk to you they get a chill then no show if when they see you they get a bad feeling then you might get bad service. I go see ladies sometime even if reviews or 50 to 50 because i am well i am cheaper. so the most important thing is a ladies real no up selling no pimps. Sorry if rude but that is what were here for. GOOD DICK TAKES YOU A LONG WAY