A request for a CBJ....Seriously? WTF?

I'm confused...
There is always so much talk on here about BBBJ's and CBJ's that one would assume men prefer BBBJ's...right?
And...if a gent on here "pays" for a BJ, he would not actually request that it be a CBJ...right?
Well, yesterday I entertained a young, but adorable man. He requested a date for an hour, arrived shaking in his boots-nervous, and dropped a GFE donation.
After trying to get him to relax and get comfortable, he asks, “Can I get a BJ?”
Duh!!! Of course baby! I love to give them...YUM! YUM!
Then, I was welcomed to his rather nice cock with ..."Do you mind if I put a condom on?" Seriously dude? WTF!
Immediately, I lost it...I actually lost my sexual appetite!
30 minutes into the date and one CBJ later, the guy gets dressed and says, as he is leaving..."You were great! I'll be in touch."
That was the weirdest and most confusing date...
J, you know me. I love BBBJ's! (And you give great ones!) I won't see a lady if she provides CBJ's. BUT, there are some guys that would rather have the condom. There is one guy on here that is a prolific reviewer that prefers CBJ's. I am sure it is all about safety.
DallasRain's Avatar
condoms when giving a bj?????.... yukkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!
Maybe he was a newbie.

Maybe he just wanted to be safe. Its a alot of guys out there who are not into GFE, so they typically get a cbj.

Keep acouple of flavored condoms around.
Flavored or not, EEEWWW!!!! Latex is NOT tasty at all! I've never been asked to do that, thankfully.
Seriously dude? WTF!
Immediately, I lost it...I actually lost my sexual appetite!
30 minutes into the date and one CBJ later, the guy gets dressed and says, as he is leaving..."You were great! I'll be in touch."
That was the weirdest and most confusing date...
Originally Posted by Miss J

And now you've ridiculed him in public. THAT'S gonna help his self-esteem.

Sheesh...
DallasRain's Avatar
I know one really really sweet guy in baton Rouge who requires cbj during a session.....I hate cbj,but .but I still luv him anyways!
LilRed's Avatar
Isn't it our job to make sure the client feels safe and comfortable so that he can enjoy his time with us?

Yes, latex tastes crappy. That is why I always keep flavored condoms in my stash for such occassions. Strawberry is so much better!
I don't think she's necessarily ridiculing. I get what she's saying.

I have to psych myself for most dates, esp new to me's. I have an idea mental aspect whatever in my mind and the date blows it - can will and has thrown me "off my game".

Particularly odd with a first meet as you are trying to get a read on personality & wants but may feel awkward saying "Dude! I'm a GFE! wtf?"

My first worst date was this to the extreme: no kissing, no "touching" per se, no bj c or bb.....basically a hj at a one hour gfe rate. Like I said my first worst date and still in the top 3..because we were 30 minutes in before I "got" what he wanted and by then the libido was gone and the mind was in that wtf?? place.
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I know there are guys that don't care much whether the bj is covered or not. And there are some guys that prefer cbj's. I assume the reason is most probably for safety issues, and the other reason off the top of my head would be to help last longer.
Outdoorsman's Avatar
One of my favorite activities is BBBJCIM while watching in a mirror. A cover would just kill it for me, lol. It is a wonderful site to be standing there with a beautiful lady doing me orally and I get to glance down at her work or glance to my side and see me starring in my own porno!! U up for that Miss J? I will not request a cover I promise!!! Just need a mirror, hmmmmm.
DallasRain's Avatar
mmmmm Outdoors that is always HOT{that is why i hae a mirror on my bedroom wall placed "just right" for that}

Bet Miss J is game!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
gypsy_dude's Avatar
From another Guy who prefers cbj. Not because it feels better but for two reasons. Safety and less sensitivity.

I personally use can't stand the smell of latex so I can't see it tasting any better. Lol

So I use skyn PR similar C's - non latex - no latex smell so no latex taste. Win win situation when I show up with these
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  • jl11
  • 11-02-2011, 04:41 AM
I prefer cbjs, but if you or any provider can show me test results that you're orally clean after your last client then bon appetit.