Appropriate Attire?

Hello again everyone. I was wondering if everyone could share what your preferred attire was for both a provider and a client for incall and outcall. I will save dinner dates for another thread.

Gentleman. When visiting a lady for an incall appointment, do you prefer that she answer the door in a nice sexy outfit? A blouse and skirt? Jeans? Or, do you prefer lingerie? Is there any outfit that would be a turnoff?

Ladies. Same question except do you have any preferred for a customer when visiting you for incall? Is there any way he could dress that just turns you off?

If a man comes to me after a long day working in the heat in mid July I will definitely be more prone to inviting him to take a shower with or without me. I usually wear either a dress or shorts when I have a date. If I know the client I am more open to wearing sexy lingerie. I guess it is a safety precaution.. lord knows I don't want to be taken down town in lingerie.

Tanner, a nice skirt while you are waiting ... pecking away at your computer would be nice. See avator

What I am wearing for a date depends on each client. I am often asked to wear something in particular or I will look at their P411 profile to see if they have a certain preference. If they are a regular, I learn what they like and cater to their taste. If it is role-playing, then I am dressed as the school girl or Domme, etc. For my new clients, who I have no idea what they like, I will be dressed in a nice skirt and blouse with lingere underneath. When it is my monthly 5am appointment, he gets sexy sleep wear.

I am most excited when I open the door to a gentleman in a crisp dress shirt, suit and tie. (My Sir has spoiled me as he is in one every time I see him..lol). My second, and most common attire for the men are a pair of slacks or nice jeans and a collared shirt. Thirdly is a pair of shorts and a t-sirt.

But when it comes down to how the men are dressed when they come to see me, I understand that often, they are slipping away for a few minutes of fun and can not be dressed any different than they are any normal day of the week.

I love a man either in a suitcoat/silk slacks/and a quirky tie...or a pair of rugged jeans/biker boats/and a rock tshirt!

My attire depends on my mood,or what a guy asks me to wear.....I love thigh high fishnets/bra& panty sets/and heels...or funky knee high socks/tight wifebeater/and a pair of booty shorts

Hmm. . .great topic. I'd have to say my personal preference would be:

boxer shorts with nothing else underneath, a comfy and well-worn t-shirt, and ankle socks. Hair down, very little to no makeup, no perfume and/or heavy scents. I love the natural look and smell of a woman 99% of the time. Dinner dates, social events, etc., call for a different attire - in which case a sexy, form fitting pants suit, understated shoes.

For me: really depends on when/where a meeting is to occur. If I'm about to go in or just getting off, you'll catch me in scrubs but yes, Tanner, I'd be more than happy to shower with you. Otherwise, weekend = nice jeans, collared shirt if in the evening, t-shirt if early afternoon. Suits and the like reserved for when it's a necessity - blame it on Catholic schools=)

My weekly guy likes me to wear lingere under neglige-type dresses when I show up, so that's what I've been wearing for everyone. It makes me feel sexy, and I'm always more fun when I feel sexy

I'd love for someone to request something absolutely ridiculous, though. Like, I think it would be awesome if someone asked me to dress like a chicken in a clownsuit or something.


As for guys, I appreciate a button-up, collared shirt on pretty much anyone. Actually, I really like button-ups on girls, too. I have no idea what this is about...maybe it's just the fun of being able to undo the buttons, one by one. Or maybe it has something to do with my kind of punkish youth...I was always attracted to dudes that were very clean-cut, because I got off on the idea of messing them up, lol.

First off I like a lady to show up that's half the battle. Lmao

As for attire, it depends on what time of day or the situation. Mostly I want the lady to wear whatever she is comfortable. I do like a little mystery so I like the lady to dress sexy but not trashy.

I do like lil dresses thigh high boots high heels. Thongs garters but that's after the outer clothing is off. Lol

If I am feeling like having a gnd exp.then a ball cap is good. Jeans. Skirt. Shorts. Sandles. Its all good
Mind you I would be happy with whatever Kelly Bella,Dallas,Lolita or lil red showed up in

As for me, usually cargo shorts, a nice tshirt.

I'd like te ladies to be dressed in whatever makes them feel comfortable

As for me, as lilred mentioned, it's mostly slipping away for a little fun so nothing more than my daily dress of shorts and a t shirt. Soon to be jeans and a t shirt lol!

I had a client show up last week wearing cowboy boots & jeans...when he undreesed,he had on sexy lacey ladies undergarmets! How cool!!!

If I make an appointment during the week I wear my work clothes, figure I am the client so, I get to wear what I want. If the session is at night during the week, that's right you guessed it, I wear my work clothes and I have been working all day!!! If she asks me to take a shower no problem, but I do not think I have ever been asked to shower, ever when I arrived for my time.

If I make an appointment on the weekend I wear seasonal clothing, in the summer, shorts, button up shirt, casual dress. If winter jeans and casual shirt, always with a collar, but sometimes a pull over.

I think on my next session I will show up dressed in speedos and a muscle shirt. If I did that I think should would run, lol.

My work clothes are a coat and tie, typically I wear a suit everyday, lol. I do not sweat at all during my work day, I guess I am fortunate.

The lady I usually request, unless it is a first time, I then let her decide. I usually ask about what I see in her showcase or on her website. Rarely does the provider not dress as I ask. So, ladies if I contact you, what to wear to see me usually is not a concern for you, I am not shy, I will tell you what I like!!!!

I want my gentleman to be comfortable, as long as he is well kempt. Me, I wear whatever would blend with the area I am going. But I have shown up in just lingerie with a coat covering me! By request, of course!

In a perfect world, i would ask gents to just show up naked.

Having said that, clients can wear what they like, I haven't seen a client wear Hawaiian shirt in a while though.

lol---Lisa one of my guys buys silk Tommy Bahama hawaiin shirts on ebay for 7 to 15 bucks each{all are new}...he loves to show them off to me when we meet....they are always SEXY AS HELL!!

Lol Dallas I just had a client with a nice Tommy Bahama on, makes me miss the islands.

I love a dapper man a crisp pressed shirt with dark jeans and nice shoes, or casual cargo shorts and a polo. It really doesn't matter, except if they just got done mowing their lawn and they have a case of green feet with smatterings of dirt on their legs. That's never appealing lol. I ask fellows to show up neat and clean like they would on a date.