Did I spook her?

tstuart101's Avatar
I've got Google Voice on my phone. (For anyone who doesn't know, this is like having an extra phone number for your phone.) I texted a provider using it. She replied. When I then replied to her text, my phone used it's normal number as opposed to the Google voice number. So, she got my reply from a different number.

I didn't hear back from her.

I then replied again a couple times using the Google voice number--and I explained that both numbers are from the same phone.

I still haven't heard from her.

Is this a reason to be spooked? Anyone have any advice on how to proceed with this provider? She may have blocked my number(s) for all I know.

It really sucks because I'd really like to see her.
aspenxtremes's Avatar
I'd leave it. If she doesn't text you back, just chalk it up and move on. If you keep messaging then you'll really freak her out.
Yep, you probably did. And with only 12 posts and 1 review (that being 17 months ago), she doesn't have a lot to go on with you.

If she has P411, maybe get signed up and approved through there, and then make an appointment through that process.

Or.... do what aspen suggests, and move on...

Good luck.
((Wizard of ahhhs, I LOVE your avatar!!!))
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((Wizard of ahhhs, I LOVE your avatar!!!)) Originally Posted by Mia D'Amore
Don't get him started, just spend the winter here and get us all started.
+1 to Bartipero; ditch the Rockies and head East, young lady, head East!!
WE like yourz my dear....we like yourz!!
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  • 11-21-2011, 04:50 PM
Mia, your avatar and showcase just puts me in the Christmas Spirit
((Wizard of ahhhs, I LOVE your avatar!!!)) Originally Posted by Mia D'Amore
Awww, thanks, Mia!

But I have to agree with my fellow posters.... Make a trip to Kansas City! But, guys, I get her FIRST!!
Wow, two whole responses before the thread was hijacked.

Tstuart, to answer the question you asked, yes I would say you spooked her. Chalk it up as a lesson learned and move on to the next lady. Its not just the fact that you texted with two different numbers. Its also the fact that your communication was all by text in the first place. Most ladies prefer to make contact by email or phone, not text messages. Generally, I'll only send one maybe two replies via text message. After that, if the guy continues to respond back and forth, I put him into the "tire kicker" category and stop responding.
ss4699's Avatar
...Tstuart, to answer the question you asked, yes I would say you spooked her. Chalk it up as.... Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh
Stacy is on the spot again and the off topic response was even sooner than normal.

Read reviews, look at providers photos, sites and posts. Respond to a pretty ladies comments - like Stacy's here. THe interaction will give you a chance to find out about the ladies here and them about you. For example - in Sins of the Flesh - "profile" find information about the lady - reviews, photos, and even specials by clicking on the links in there posting profile. Check the ads for ladies you find interesting for infortmation about reference requirements and other "clearance items needed before a meeting can be arranged. Stacy for example is having a unique special right now! Many also have a private website as well as the information provided here,
Reviews will tell you about services offered by individual ladies. Decide what you are interested in. There will be sections you cannot read without special premission.
Takes time to get started.
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((Wizard of ahhhs, I LOVE your avatar!!!)) Originally Posted by Mia D'Amore
His avatar is actually a picture of me, you just can't see my face....lol
malwoody's Avatar
Stacy is on the spot again and the off topic response was even sooner than normal.

Read reviews, look at providers photos, sites and posts. Respond to a pretty ladies comments - like Stacy's here. THe interaction will give you a chance to find out about the ladies here and them about you. For example - in Sins of the Flesh - "profile" find information about the lady - reviews, photos, and even specials by clicking on the links in there posting profile. Check the ads for ladies you find interesting for infortmation about reference requirements and other "clearance items needed before a meeting can be arranged. Stacy for example is having a unique special right now! Many also have a private website as well as the information provided here,
Reviews will tell you about services offered by individual ladies. Decide what you are interested in. There will be sections you cannot read without special premission.
Takes time to get started. Originally Posted by newtotown
And there you have it folks, everything you ever wanted to know about our lifestyle and then some..
ElumEno's Avatar
@Tstuart...
Had the same thing happen to me too..
except mine was on the second call, tried to be cute and it came out all wrong,
I know as soon as I opened my mouth I screwed up.
Just know that it happens and move on.


@Sins...
I have not had the opportunity to meet you yet,
But form everything I’ve seen and heard. You have some nice tires to lick.
Plus if my memory serves, You already promised that yours taste much better than my own.

Oops just noticed that you said Tire Kicker...
Don't know why I thought of the other.
ss4699's Avatar
Something like

Sorry double posted. Not sure what buttons I hit this time...

http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=54993
Links to specific provider profiles in the top left corner in there post

http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=54...=eccie_reviews
providers reviews - for services offered

AND most providers have links to there site in the signiture line or profile information. And that is really not all the story just the beginning....Hello MW