LOL I don't think that's a fair assessment at all. A lot of great ladies here on ECCIE started out posting on BP, and a few still do. There is a lot of trash/fake ads to sort through though. I swear it seems like most are fake with the occasional diamond in the rough which is why I never do anything more than window-shop BP nowadays! I would imagine it would be harder to screen a BP gent since they aren't a member of this board, but one of the providers would be able to better answer that question an me I'm sure. Give it a shot and see if it works for you, just stay safe!