Don't mean to be cryptic or hurt anyone's feelings. Escorting is a business and hopefully escorts restrict their business to only those they really like and enjoy spending time with. Otherwise, it's not very much fun for anyone. Anyone who has been with someone who is distant should realize this person just isn't into you. Unfortunately, really enjoying someones company can lead to problems and everyone needs to keep their feelings in check and respect the other persons feelings and business.
Problems arise when one blurs the relationship and tries to morph it into a non-business relationship.......calling, e-mailing all the time, asking for dates, etc. all the way to stalking and intruding on one's life.
Chloe, you of all people should know this but I can't fault you for taking the guys' side. It's business.
So, guys, take a good look at what's going on in your life and give yourself a reality check if you are expecting more from an escort. Not that I'm saying two people can't find each other through escorting, but don't ever expect it and if you try for more and are told "No", leave it alone.