maybe a silly cbj question

Like most guys, I prefer BBBJ to CBJ IRL. On the other hand, I'm new to this otherworldly hobby and have mostly done the AMP thing.

I'm looking to branch out and make some calls to Ind providers or maybe some of the massage+ ladies that advertise.

At least at first, I think a BBBJ would be great but is a little past my risk tolerance level. A CBJ wouldn't be as good, but I'd be able to walk away with a clear head - which is much better.

I'm sure I know the answer to this question, but I'd like some feedback anyway.

Most of the providers (at least from reading the reviews) are fine with and even assume BBBJ is on the menu for the clients. What/when is the best way to bring up that I'd prefer a cover? Should I bring my own to be sure. I presume unlubed is better, or maybe flavored. Is one brand better than another?

This is a good question. My experience might be atypical: my SO was always a little reluctant, somewhat of a "quitter" until we tried flavored condoms. (Did you know freshness is an issue with those? I'm told they lose their flavor after too long in the box.) Now she goes to completion and doesn't stop until I'm drained.

My current UTR, on the other hand, refuses to use them: pretty much switches to manual when I start to blow. My all-time preference is of course BBBJTC/CIM, but I'm not currently getting that. :-)