What should I do?

First, she is not provider, just someone having hard time. I got gift card to Victoria Secret's, but she does not stuff from there. I got her another gift card from another place, and she does not like clothes from there. I got a tin of homemade chocolate treats and fudge, and she does not eat chocolate. She does not drink, so I did not get alcohol for her. I got her 7 year son, a stocking of gifts like coloring books, crayons, cars, small football, and several games. Her answer was that she wanted the $200 remote car for her son.
I am not dating her, but I am turned off with her acting like a snob. The holidays of 2009, I had no job, and I was stuck home alone just eating TV turkey dinner. I wanted to give back. I was in her town working yesterday, and call her that I would give her give her gifts. Her answer is that she is at her sister since she is sick, and did not want to see me. Did not want me drop her her gifts somewhere that she can get them. What should do with her gifts?

Give her gifts to Goodwill and move on.... she has...

No kidding......she is not interested in anything you are trying to do. As nice as you are being, she is not interested. You sound like a nice guy, but some people cannot be pleased or appreciative.

I told her that if she can't help herself, then I am not helping her. I am not sugar daddy; just a guy making decent living. My new rule is not to confuse money with my emotions; they are separate things. What do you think?

It sounds like she has a hook in you. We have all been there. Take the advice from the guys above. Move on. She isn't showing any interest toward you. We have all been there too.

Consider yourself lucky that she doesn't set the hook. You could turn into an emotional wreck if she wanted to play you...many have...

Tell her to fuck off Tex. And then move on, like the guys said, I've been there too. Don't spend another dime on an unappreciative bitch.

here here CC...we have ALL BEEN THERE!

I gave her gifts to some people that would be appreciative of them. The holidays get me bummed out since I am alone. Everyone gets busy, and I don't get to hang out with any friends. I worked my butt off from 8am til 10pm for several weeks now. I bought 70 toys and gave them to Toys for Tots. I get on PeopleofWalmart and other websites of stuff that people post and laugh my butt.

Thanks everyone for your feedback, Have Merry Christmas.....

Dump the bitch.

Tex9401, I'm sorry to say I agree with the guys who responded to you. Seems like we have all been through this kind of thing. Tough stuff when emotions are in it.
Good Luck and Merry Christmas.

Tell her to fuck off Tex. And then move on, like the guys said, I've been there too. Don't spend another dime on an unappreciative bitch. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

Exactly what CC said!!!

Um yeah - you obviously are a sweetheart to even think of her and to go above and beyond. She's an ungrateful, spoiled little brat. Move on, take the gifts to Goodwill or return the cards to the stores and get your money back.

You deserve much better.

I gave the stocking of toys to family that would like them. The gifts and candles will be give to a provider that I see.

Um yeah - you obviously are a sweetheart to even think of her and to go above and beyond. She's an ungrateful, spoiled little brat. Move on, take the gifts to Goodwill or return the cards to the stores and get your money back.

You deserve much better. Originally Posted by Tori Hastings