Do you think you could date or get married to a provider?

I've dated a few providers and lived with one for almost 2 years. I was wandering if you guys could have a relationship with a provider, knowing that she's home screwing 2 or 3 guys a day while your at work? Your thoughts?

Didn't we just do this thread?

Twice?

Didn't we just do this thread?

Twice? Originally Posted by Fort Worth Punk

Think you'll find just about all you'll need in this thread, pal:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=341935

Didn't we just do this thread?

Twice? Originally Posted by Fort Worth Punk

Twice a year.

Some guys handle it better than others. It just depends on whether or not you feel as if its a job for her or something more.

Its also important to find other ways than sex to develop a deep relationship. I dated my last bf for almost 3 years and he was always cool about it. Didn't even bring it up when we fought. He knew it was my job and didn't judge me for it. We are still good friends.

Having a relationship with the person, which is much deeper than what the person does. Be honest with yourself and others, by so doing you can avoid lots of problems.

Having a relationship with the person, which is much deeper than what the person does. Be honest with yourself and others, by so doing you can avoid lots of problems. Originally Posted by txpussyboy

tpb,
I can remember when you would hardly said a word! Now look at you! LOL!

I never would thought I would ever say this, but your statement is soooo right!

You just never know.....

I dont see what the big deal is about dating a provider. You pick up the lady, you go to dinner, have conversation, enjoy a bottle of wine or two. You might go out to listen to some music, see a movie, have more drinks, more conversation and then you take the lady home and say goodnite and then hurry home to a warm soapy shower and well you know the rest of the story.

It is really interesting. All of us wish our SO,s loved sex as much as a providers do, but most couldnt handle the fact that she would act like we do. Most men want to sow their seed wherever they want but want a woman to be monogamous, human nature I guess. Its hard to have the best of both worlds, what a quandry, Merry Christmas All.

Double edged sword.....

We are all men and women with our own likes and dislikes. If we find someone that we have a lot of chemistry with and things go well, anything is possible. Just be realistic about the situation.

Well, no less than 3 times I have been matched with providers based on "29 dimensions of compatibility"!!! Who knows, there could have been more that I had no idea were providers. It certainly made me think and I can't say that I would absolutely say no.

Absolutely:
Reason one: Being a provider doesn't rob a woman of her humanity and her capability of loving or caring for someone.
Reason two: Why not? In one way or another we all screw somebody for a living don't we? Providers just get to have sex while they're doing it.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=341935 exact same topic form a few days ago.

I've been in 3 provider relationships... it happens, it doesn't bother me how she makes her money at the end of the day her heart is mine, you just have to be comfortable with the idea.