Provider satisfaction

Brmike1963's Avatar
I am curious. I have been reading a lot of the reviews and see where some of the clients write about how long they Dined at the Y , or how many O's they gave their provider. How important is that for you ladies. I mean, if I pay a agree'd upon rate and just enjoy the passion of a beautiful provider pleasing me in ways I like. Does that make me selfish and will it effect a repeat visit if desired. Do you talk amongst yourselfs and say " he pays well but he won't go down on me" or stuff along those lines? I am under the impression that you are not here to find a boyfriend just as I am not here to find a girlfriend , that it is a simple business deal between us. I love passion and the fantasy of the GFE experience but to be honest , I am just wanting to be pleased by you and am willing to compensate you for your time. Does that make me a bad client?
Looking forward to the responses.

Brmike1963's Avatar
As am I.
There are some that I stay at the Y till she says ok,,,I have to give you some and give myself a rest, and with other I enjoy laying back and letting her go at it.
Not at all! Of course the whole point of the encounter is to make sure YOU are happy. I can only speak for myself, but I don't mind pampering my guy, whether he's mine or just 'borrowed'! For me, its just as much fun to know and SEE what I do pleases you. I know the guys here, and everywhere else, do a lot for the people in their lives and sometimes it goes unnoticed. I like to show MY appreciation that you chose me to spend your time and hard earned money with. If I get an O or MORE, thats just a bonus!
Brmike1963's Avatar
Darling, you just made my list.
DallasRain's Avatar
I like to call my sessions an "experience" ...I am entertaining YOU,therefore I am being entertained! I strive to get total satisfaction out of every call in any way possible.....for ME and THE CLIENT!


as for the importance of "dining at the Y" and "getting an orgasm"....I say YES,if it feels good ,do it! As long as everybody is having fun,then thats the goal!
Gucci's Avatar
  • Gucci
  • 12-27-2011, 02:13 PM
I work as hard to please my provider as I expect her to work to please me.
I don't expect DATY but I do enjoy it. I have found that I have a better orgasm with it so if I have a session without an orgasm I always end up masturbating afterwards. I get flustered and hot and bothered and without that sexual release I tend to have a bit of pent up aggression.
The extreme euphoria I feel after an orgasm is amazing. I can do that with or without help but I prefer with help. :]
australian_hell_yun's Avatar
I like to consider myself a vagaterian. There is nothing like eating pussy, and having a shelia orgasm on your face. To feel her legs tighten or tense up around you. I like to bury to grab ahold of her legs and not let go. Ahhh, then enjoyment of knowing she has had pure satisfaction.
Australian, you come up with the most entertaining ways of getting your point across! You'd need a snorkle with me darlin'!
australian_hell_yun's Avatar
Oh Nicolet. This Aussie has been deep in the bush, has slid across the bare was of the shelias and has been squirted on by the best. When I was younger I was going to get a tattoo of Auqa Man on my arm. Once I go down, I don't like to come up. And for you serious squirters, I have a set of gills which allow me to breathe under water.
pornodave69's Avatar
Part of my pleasure is being able to pleasure the woman I'm with, provider or not. There are a lot of pretty kitties out there I want to taste, lick and tease them all. I've been told by both civilian and working ladies that I'm orally gifted and orally generous. And if they're satisfied with my oral and sexual skills then I'm happy and more satisfied with the whole experience.
australian_hell_yun's Avatar
I like to give the cockpit the ole scratch in sniff. If it smells like it could gag in maggot in a gut house, I bail. A good scented Shelia, well groomed. There is a provider on here, No names mentioned. I didnt go down her or have sex with her. She gave me the stinky finger and I avoided getting the stinky dick. While dressing, trying to get away from her rank snatch and from power puking, I noticed she sprayed herself with some kind of spray. Perhaps it was some kind of disenfectant "hopefully cooter killer". I went to the closet Target and purelled my finger
Outdoorsman's Avatar
I agree with the OP we as hobbyests are there paying good money for us. I do enjoy getting a lady off, but that is not my primary goal. I do perform DATY but not every time, it is not necessary for me, if I feel like it, I go in, if I do not feel like it, I do not go down.

Do the ladies talk? Of course they do, I am not privy to those conversations but when I see a new lady, I know she has been informed of my likes and dislikes by her actions and comments, she did not get that from me. But I do not think on the most part they care if you go down on them or not. It is a job for these ladies and they do not sit at home by the phone hoping Outdoorsman calls them, lol. The reputable and professional ladies will please thier clients on a consistent basis, if that means providing the Y part of a persons desire to perform DATY than so be it, if that means having a hobbyest pampered than so be it. I typically lay back and get pleasured but at times, especially my longer session I want to dive in, just me. Now ladies knowing I do not do DATY on a consistent basis, has not in any way that I am aware of effect my ability to see different women at all. I have the ability to pay and they all know it, so my criteria is met, lol.

i hope this doe snot come across as cynical because I do not mean it in that way. I have clients and while I care about thier issues, I will not perfomr without compensation, that simple. I require very little from my clients as tey are the cusomters, simple for me.