I have been reading the tread about provider satisfaction and have chatted with other guys on their take of it. For me, the biggest turn on I can experience is to have the provider experience as much fun and achieve as much sexual satisfaction from the session as I do. It has nothing to do with ego but everything to do with sex.
My take on sex is, I don't want you to do it because you have to, I want you to do it because you want to. It pleases me if it pleases you. That is the ultimate turn on. The same for me. I put everything I can into a session because I love sex. Two people going all out to please each other can be quite exciting.
So, for my novel approach. Have any providers ever considered offering a session where the hobbyist is the one doing the pleasing? I know this sounds unorthodox, but there are times when I would be more than happy to have her lay back and just enjoy. The only satisfaction I would seek would be getting myself off perhaps with her sitting on my face or some other comfortable position. Hell, some of you ladies are so fine, I could just sit there and admire your bodies and take care of myself.
Now I would ask that this would be for a reduced amount because you are getting all the attention. Maybe on a slow day or at a time when you might be feeling especially horny and just want to have some fun of your own. I know I have tendency to come up with unusual threads sometimes, but what the heck? I only get to be here4now!