GFE and PSE whats it mean to you?

Mojojo's Avatar
When you think of the terms GFE and PSE what comes to mind?
To me those terms are totally subjective. For instance

GFE to me means the girl strives to be the perfect Girl Friend material. She enjoys time cuddling kissing, BBBJ and all that good stuff you'd want your GF/SO to do without the BS.


PSE in my opinion is when the lady expands her horizons and performs out of the normally activities, in other words turns it up a notch and does things your GF/SO wouldn't think about like RIM,


Again those terms are totally subjective but lets hear what you all think.
I agree. GFE is convo, kissing, caressing, bbbj. PSE is wilder. I like your description since I am a sucker for rimming or her licking my taint (between balls and A hole). When I am in a PSE mood I also really enjoy FIV. I believe a womans pussy is a work of art. I love so see and feel inside a nice wet pussy. The serious PSE may involve some real DT action and a few have even provided what can be described as face fucking DT to completion, cim, nqns. Reading over this you would think I am a PSE loving guy, and I do like it on occasion, although I admit I have seen more GFE than PSE ladies. They just seem to be more the personality I gravitate to.
I've seen this one kicked around a few times. For me, GFE would be described as DFK, BBBJ, MPCFS, DATY, cuddling, and possibly CIM. PSE gets harder for me to describe. Certainly turning it up a notch, but I've seen providers described as PSE that didn't include DFK. So, I'm a bit puzzled by that term. I'd be curious what the ladies think these terms include.
FootLong's Avatar
I figure PSE is described by what's in most porn films (since it stands for "Porn Star Experience"). I don't see a lot of kissing and cuddling in porn films. So I figure kissing and cuddling are in the realm of the GFE. After all, it stands for "Girl Friend Experience", and I'm pretty sure most guys are kissing and cuddling with their girlfriends. So DFK as well as DATY, BBBJ, and CFS. Ah, the 4 food groups. The girlfriend that's a keeper also does CIM.

I think PSE would encompass Greek, and probably fetishes like stomping on a guy's balls, or whatever. And perhaps more open to pretty much anything as seen in a porn flick.
PSE means just what the lady thinks it means ;-)))
Naughty_Jezabelle's Avatar
What a great topic !!! As a provider I have wondered the difference to you guys. I have done all the above mentioned and more however never once been told I was PSE lol


I would think that GFE would be all the general things you could expect from a true girlfriend including kissing bbbj daty conversation not a clock watcher .... Basically chemistry in the real form.

PSE would be a kinky girl friend lol DT (I do) rimming (I have done) talking dirty (way done that) Greek (ymmv) lol light fetishes (any one that knows me already knows) lol I'm sure there are more but that is on the top of my head
BONERX2's Avatar
GFE is dfk, bbbj, convo and a sweet session.

PSE is all of the above replacing the sweet with nasty (in a good way) along with greek, possible facial, possible swallow, dirty talk and overall high energy where the woman WANTS IT and is aggressive.

Just my opinion.
Jake Ryan's Avatar
Ummm yeah...Exactly!!!
PSE is an aggressive performance.

GFE is picking her up from work, reassuring her that everything will be okay, listen to her bitch about her friends and her day in general, etc. etc.
Sonya Playmate's Avatar
(PSE) in my POV= DFK, a whole lot of spit while BBBJ while eye contact, deep throat, gaging, nipple biting/pinching, balls sucking, greek, facial, oil play, rimming, and possible prostate massage.

(GFE) in my POV = girlfriend experience DFK, LFK, BBBJ, treating you like your (#1)
Doc_rob's Avatar
IMO GFE is your Girl Friend type with kissing, cuddling, HJ, BBBJ, various sexual positions etc. while the PSE type will push the envelope to include but not limited to Greek, toys, anal play, lite bdsm, watching porn together, P massage, and yes very very sloppy BBBJ's, rimming, TUHA, tea bagging, etc.
Hmmmm...I guess im both
They both overlap
I dont know the differenc
What is rimming?
sanantonioman37's Avatar
tongue on the ass.
Mature Companion's Avatar
PSE certainly doesn't mean, that just because someone enjoys certain fetishes or pleasure beyond the norm. That they're PSE. Far from it.

PSE is all about how folks portray themselves during said NORMAL sexual activities. Like fucking rough. Like they do in porn.
IE: Porn Star Experience= FAKE, scripted, rough mechanical actions.

Because there's not much outside of fucking rough, rough BBBJ, rough anal, that the porn stars do that make their sex any different or unique.
But yet one CAN still be GFE, and still fuck rough.
So PSE/GFE go pretty much hand in hand. It's all about how you partake of the ACTIONS during your sexual experience.


Now being uninhibited, which I am. Is FAR different than that of PSE.
TOTALLY two different meanings.



When you think of the terms GFE and PSE what comes to mind?
To me those terms are totally subjective. For instance

GFE to me means the girl strives to be the perfect Girl Friend material. She enjoys time cuddling kissing, BBBJ and all that good stuff you'd want your GF/SO to do without the BS.


PSE in my opinion is when the lady expands her horizons and performs out of the normally activities, in other words turns it up a notch and does things your GF/SO wouldn't think about like RIM,


Again those terms are totally subjective but lets hear what you all think. Originally Posted by mojojo213