No References Required

We all pretty much agree that references in this hobby/biz give a girl a better shot at safety, security and success.

I saw a lady's ad somewhere that said "No references required".

My question to the membership for today is:

Is there a benefit to the guy, the hobbyist, seeing a girl that requires references, vs. a girl that does not?

Is there some greater risk to the guy in seeing a girl that requires no references?

Other than the LE potential, I mean.

...Is there a benefit to the guy, the hobbyist, seeing a girl that requires references, vs. a girl that does not?

Is there some greater risk to the guy in seeing a girl that requires no references?

Other than the LE potential, I mean. Originally Posted by FootLong

FL --

Not sure what you mean by "other than the LE potential": That "she" may be LE bait; that if she is a real provider (as opposed to LE bait), she runs a high risk of getting busted by LE (and spilling her guts about her clients); or something else?

Why I prefer ladies who screen: Although nothing is foolproof, those who fail to screen, run a higher risk of violence at the hands of some psycho. My worst nightmare would be: having seen a lady who does become a victim of violence, and while gathering crime-scene evidence, LE combs through her 'phone and computer; and before long, the men in blue are at my front door, asking me where I was on the night of...

So, by taking measures to protect herself, the lady is ultimately protecting me.

When I first started, I had no idea what screening was and I didn't screen.
I do require references now and will never not ask for one again.
Most people learn what works for them best through trial and error.

Now if only all the girls would supply more information when giving references...

I would be leery of come one come all types. usually the service is not up to par and clients are not coming back, thus the desperate plea!

Thinking on a companion that required no references they take higher risks without screening who they see. Wouldn't that make you nervous? I say a hell a lot of risk lol

Then vs a "companion" that takes there time to screen you corrected like detail description, race, height, etc. It might take them days for the screening but you know your r safe. I hope this helps

I think every "lady" should screen for there own safely...

I think every "lady" should screen for there own safely... Originally Posted by Sonya

love how she put "" around lady!

hola BB

sorry for off topic footlong ----))

It's ridiculously crazy for a woman NOT to screen. It's just a matter of time before something bad happens. They're playing a very dangerous game of Hobby Roulette.

Non-screeners are an easy target and an easy mark for fucktards and fucktarded behavior.

If you're not a Honey Badger you'd best start screening!!



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SKF, the question is: how does it benefit the guy...

FL --

I was wondering to myself, why your initial question, and whether the recent "FL Imposter" incident was the underlying reason. Although references didn't solve the mystery, a girl who's thorough in her screening is generally cautious -- as was SummerBaylee in checking back with you, and her caution served you both well.

If so, this incident is another case in point that screening (and insistence on references) is an indicator of a lady's overall care for her own safety, health, and reputation; and that her care for herself, in turn, is of benefit to her clients' safety, health, and reputations.

That wasn't what prompted the question, but the responses so far are good points.

I've never really thought of it.
I never have seen a Provider that didn't have a history established here or another site.
If the Provider is not, IMO, reliable or has something bad ringing in my head/gut, I don't contact. Maybe there is a causal (sp) relationship with the Providers I see and their ability to screen. Never check it.
Just know that I haven't been turned down when making contact with the Ladies on this site.

To me, a 'lady' that requests refs provides some form of 'legitimacy'.

When the provider is safe and cautious, then I feel less likely to be scammed, mugged, 'baited' and less likely to have 'issues' during or after the session.

It would not be in my best interest to suddenly find a pistol in my face, or wallet, watch, and car in someone else's possession, and being left holding the bag answering questions that will lead to actions causing the loss of two houses, a portion of retirement, etc.

Since starting in this thing of ours I have always maintained that safety should be of the foremost of our providers; as their use of precautions leads to the mutual safety benefits for the hobbyist.

It is for these reasons I will not seek BP or MOCO adverts, there is no upside and a whole lot of downside.

Ladies, thank you for watching out for yourselves and for us.

Proud member of this Mutual Appreciation Society.

Dogg

The benefit to the guy: he gets laid with no questions asked
"seems" like a great way for a newbie to get started, but is it really?
Other than the guy getting laid, with no questions...I dont see any benefits
And the bad far outweighs the good

All great thoughts and responses and I'd much prefer those who screen but being a newbie and having a P411 but no references, how does one proceed to acquire references/okays? Any previous threads would be appreciated.