I'm just curious but what kind info are you looking for when you ask a other lady for references?
Just curious cause I have been messaged saying that she asked about me and from what she heard they thought a session with me would be fun. I never contacted this lady and when I asked who said what she wouldn't tell.
How does a lady know if a guy wanted her to get info on him?
Just curious what kind of info is normally exchanged other than he is safe and pays?
- black5uperman
- 01-17-2012, 11:21 AM
- MsPrittiKitti
- 01-17-2012, 11:59 AM
typically, ill ask...
is he a gentleman?
safe?
did you have any issues?
would you see him again?
anything you feel i need to know about? ...
is he a gentleman?
safe?
did you have any issues?
would you see him again?
anything you feel i need to know about? ...
- Doc_rob
- 01-17-2012, 12:27 PM
Sounds like good reasonable questions to me...Might ask if he is P411 too.
- black5uperman
- 01-17-2012, 12:54 PM
- levi tab
- 01-17-2012, 05:01 PM
Sounds like you received an unsolicited PM, is that correct? Was the lady that PMed you someone with lots of reviews, been around for while or a New Provider?
She may have looked at the type of ladies you reviewed and started to ask around about you and got you "Pre-Screened" lol
She may have looked at the type of ladies you reviewed and started to ask around about you and got you "Pre-Screened" lol
- black5uperman
- 01-17-2012, 06:39 PM
I don't care about the pm not trying to out the person just was curious what info is exchanged
- Secret Encounters
- 01-17-2012, 07:22 PM
BS i tend to send out a pm saying this ..
"hi its lexxxi i have a gentlemen using u as a refrence just wondering if hes good to go and would u see him again?
Thank you in advance
Lexxxi"
.. meaning if ur legit and ok. usually u dont have to ask other questions bc if someone is rude, smelly, shorted on donation that provider will dish it out to u without asking info.
However there are a few providers that have asked me questions about a hobbyist .. i initally thought she was asking for a refrence but she was like .. what do u know about _____ and i tell her hes cool and ect but likes to chat and a real sweetie.. then she asked is he big does he like daty and what does he look like .. im like damn .. so i tell her what i know and come to find out lol she pm'd him saying oh i heard about u .. and u like this and this and heard ur big ..lol.. i had no idea until he was like gurl what did u say about me .. im like i told her ur good..
so frm here on out i just give basic info on a guy and need to know info. Everything else is unneccessary. IMO!!
lexxxi
"hi its lexxxi i have a gentlemen using u as a refrence just wondering if hes good to go and would u see him again?
Thank you in advance
Lexxxi"
.. meaning if ur legit and ok. usually u dont have to ask other questions bc if someone is rude, smelly, shorted on donation that provider will dish it out to u without asking info.
However there are a few providers that have asked me questions about a hobbyist .. i initally thought she was asking for a refrence but she was like .. what do u know about _____ and i tell her hes cool and ect but likes to chat and a real sweetie.. then she asked is he big does he like daty and what does he look like .. im like damn .. so i tell her what i know and come to find out lol she pm'd him saying oh i heard about u .. and u like this and this and heard ur big ..lol.. i had no idea until he was like gurl what did u say about me .. im like i told her ur good..
so frm here on out i just give basic info on a guy and need to know info. Everything else is unneccessary. IMO!!lexxxi
- Guest072013
- 01-18-2012, 05:43 AM
basically just ask for if he is safe and if they have met them. and of course if there is any other info that may help.
licks and kisses
licks and kisses
- Likinikki
- 01-18-2012, 05:54 PM
I always ask if a provider had any issues...if they had good hygiene...safe to meet...and, would she see him again. I appreciate any additional information that she may include, to help me determine whether the hobbyist and I would be compatible.
I realize some hobbyists don't really care...they just want the *fun,* but for me, I want to make sure the date goes well...and, is enjoyable for the both of us.
I realize some hobbyists don't really care...they just want the *fun,* but for me, I want to make sure the date goes well...and, is enjoyable for the both of us.