Yes I WILL tell you what time the appointment ends.

As a business woman, I feel this completely necessary. generally if I don't, ILL get ripped off. The guy will freak out about how he "still had two minutes left" and that "i completely robbed him". This doesn't make me a clock watcher. As soon as I say that, I completely disregard the clock for the remainder of the appointment. And I never object to giving a guy a few extra minutes at the end of the appointment. If my policies, which I put on place to stay professional as well as to maintain my personal safety bother anyone, simply don't call me. its that simple.

Oh and furthermore, how else does a guy know what time the appointment started? Obviously, id rather not have my guest feeling ripped off by thinking im taking away from his time as imgetting ready. The tine starts when I step out of the bathroom, and I want to make that clear.

I have to add, I did an appointment with this young lady recently and had a marvelous time. I received the same matter of fact statement of time when she considered the appointment to start. It started after we had talked for a few, I had taken my shower and she had done her bathroom visit for changing, about 20 minutes altogether. Then my hour began. Frankly, I thought that was refreshing.

Eli

I'm most likely in the minority when I say this but I truly don't mind a provider to tell me that our time is up. What's a better way to tell our contracted time is over but looking at the clock? So providers who are "clockwatchers" really don't bother me. I generally have shit to do too and somewhere to be.

The problem is always how it's done. Never make your client feel rushed. It suggests that his business is unappreciated by the provider. Providers shouldn't speak in harsh and abrupt tones, telling their clients "to hurry up.." in one form or another. A simple, calm and gently stated, "our time is almost up..." will suffice.

Hobbyists in turn should be respectful and mindful of the clock as well. When our time is over, we are on their time. We should be appreciate the extra time and make it right when necessary.

You have to be careful when you say it. If the guy is working hard to get a nut, mentioning time can make a stiff dick go limp in a heartbeat. If you're just in the foreplay mode, or haven't even started the fun stuff yet, it shouldn't be a factor.

Keep that in mind, especially with older clientele.

Oh Brave New World That Has Such People in It!

If i leave early do i get a refund????

i advocate just giving them a " deposit "

If i leave early do i get a refund???? Originally Posted by kvmllr

Yes... most certainly!

Just that the refund needs to be applied to the same credit card.

Instead of the refund, how about a new system where the provider charges by the minute. She sets a stop watch at the beginning of the appointment and charges you 3 or 4 dollars per minute. That would get her the hourly rate of $180 - $240, but us clowns would only pay for the portion you use. I think one of the car insurance companies is doing something like this.

This would be a great system for me. I would only be charged around 6 to 8 bucks per encounter!

hmmm...okay i rarely give advice to a lady in an open forum..rarely ever pm her either..however ..this just thread jumped out at me...

...perhaps the provider would think it a good biz sense to be ready before the client arrives that way there are no issues as when the appointment begins..

also..you can always get and set the alarm clock or get a clock that flashes the time onto the ceiling that way you can see it with out actually looking at it..and the alarm def lets ya'll know when the time is up with out going over..some alarms set off to music so it doesnt give ya'll a heart attack while doing the do...

now if the gent is running over a few minutes..well that happens to the best of us..it will happen..just guide him through...also..if you scheduling back to back appointments you may wanna leave more time in between appointments so that if a gent does run over you can still be fresh and prepared to go when your next gent comes to visit..

Always be ready early..that way when your phone rings your ready to go..

I hope this advice isn't taken the wrong way..its really about "tcb" skills..

your a pretty lady..however, it takes more than just being pretty to
keep bringing them back to your door...

goodluck be safe and take care...muah..nita..

This is a service that charges by the time, so clock-watching is understandable, especially for short sessions. The question is how to do it with with taste and subtlety.

How about this?

well ..i have developed a keen sense of time being in this biz its something you tend to acquire..till then i suggest setting that alarm to music.
It did wonders for me and kept my people on time as well to what thy had to get back to..
.unless that sand dial has something that makes a sound when the time is up..she is still not gonna know when the time is up..unless all she's doin is looking at that..

Well I go in the bathroom to allow the client to get comfortable and let me secure the money. This prevents legal issues for me. And as far as letting a client know when the appointment will end, bp clients have become violent on more than one occasion because they wanted to debate how much time ls left