Want Honest Feedback: Should Mature Providers Have Lower Donations?

I was having a discussion with a few friends and the topic of varying donations came up. Donations vary across the nation, but it seems to me that there's a standard for the various *category* of providers.

The HDHs command the highest donations...the college coed/eye candy girls command above average donations...MILFs/Massage/Fetish providers (spinners-bbws) have donations ranging from above average to slightly below average...Mature providers command average donations...SW/Spa/Moco girls range from low-very low.

Then, I think about some of us who are in the *very mature* category, and wonder...do hobbyists think this category should offer lower donations?

1. What factors do you think should be considered?
2. Do you think the age factor matters?
3. Do you think a very mature provider can command average or above donations?

Looking for honest opinions and let's keep this civil! Thanks!!
redrum's Avatar
Mature providers have been some of the best in my opinion. To me rates should be based off of

1. Menu
2. Quality of time spent
3. Quality of incall
4. Tcob skills
5. Professionalism
6. Looks
7. Positive reputation

Nikki you are the best it comes in my opinion.
Naughty_Jezabelle's Avatar
HOLY HELL ! !! where have you been redrum ?!?!?!?

Nikki, I think that a woman of your presence can demand and get whatever she so desire. You are top notch!
Marcus78's Avatar
This may seem like a cop-out, but I think it's entirely dependent upon the market, and the lady. If you charge X amount, and you get a satisfactory level of clients, then don't change. If business dips, then charge less. If you're overwhelmed, charge more. Good and services constantly change prices with supply and demand, and I don't think the hobby is any different. Like you said though, an older lady (or if you prefer "someone aged to perfection" )will not be able to compete with the HDH and the various pornstars who come and go. That's just life and basic laws of human attraction I think. Of course there is a qualified exception for Betty White who, if she provided, could demand an astronomical rate based on the "wow" factor of screwing Betty White! I mean, who WOULDN'T want to have that feather in their cap? LOL

With that being said and all kidding aside, I think there is a lot more than just age and looks which go into making a decision on who to see. There is for me anyways! Much like a provider will screen a hobbyist, I review past reviews on the lady, and almost as important, posts made by the lady to get a feel for whether we'd be a match BCD. Nothing sucks more than to get BCD with someone and have no spark. I won't name names, but there have been a couple of ladies who came off as bitchy/whiny/needy/snobbish etc, and I add them to my "do not see list!"

Lastly, I'd be curious to know what you consider average as a guidepoint. You call spas low to very low, but you'll shell out $200.00 USD, or more, for what amounts to less than 30 minutes of the really fun stuff! I think $200.00 is average at worst, especially for the amount of actual BCD time. It would be hard to nail down a price figure until we know what median/average we're concerning ourselves with.
sabigbear79's Avatar
Ok I'm going to field this one for bottom question to top:

3. Yes.
2. Yes.
1. My factors considered when seeing any provider are body quality to age ratio like she could be chronologically 40 something but have an amazing body of a 30 something and viceversa, menu and personality, then wrap them all up into one to weigh them against the donation to come to a decision to see that provider.

Finally any mature provider shouldn't offer a lower donation from pressures of competition or common donation practices in the community, if you can get what ever your asking donations are then keep asking for it, you can always test the waters to figure out a good starting donation or even a max based on what you offer.

Hope it helps and one of these days when I grow up, I hope you're still around to see you for a session, good luck.
bamatide's Avatar
Since I have not had the honor of meeting you (yet), but your reputation speaks for itself in my book. The sessions I've had with mature providers has been great in every detail. So the answer in my opinion is yes. Mature providers bring something special to the table.
Mature Companion's Avatar

Should mature ladies have lower donations? Hell NO!If anything, the MATURE older ladies bring a hell of a lot more knowledge, desire, passion to the dates.

That's honest feedback you asked for.
I was having a discussion with a few friends and the topic of varying donations came up. Donations vary across the nation, but it seems to me that there's a standard for the various *category* of providers.

The HDHs command the highest donations...the college coed/eye candy girls command above average donations...MILFs/Massage/Fetish providers (spinners-bbws) have donations ranging from above average to slightly below average...Mature providers command average donations...SW/Spa/Moco girls range from low-very low.

Then, I think about some of us who are in the *very mature* category, and wonder...do hobbyists think this category should offer lower donations?

1. What factors do you think should be considered?
2. Do you think the age factor matters?
3. Do you think a very mature provider can command average or above donations?

Looking for honest opinions and let's keep this civil! Thanks!! Originally Posted by Likinikki
Willen's Avatar
I agree, with everybody.

No, I'm lucid. Here's what I mean. Issues of quality, in particular the benefits of experience that WickedMilf notes, counts for a ton in my book--far more than age, body type, big chest/butt, etc. Of course, those are my opinions. Nikki exemplifies all the benefits of maturity, combined with exemplary attitude. (Aside, the bod is smokin', but that only confuses matters.)

However, we assume the most ladies hobbies to make money, in large part if not entirely. So, it follows, that if you aren't attracting business the way you want (and deserve, as far as I'm concerned) then it follows that you need to do something to improve your marketability. That might mean dropping the asked for donation, or something else (expanded menu?) Not fair. Not right. But the reality of the market
foxyred73's Avatar
i have to second that ...hell no....there is no price on a couger
Dear Nikki,

You are like a fine scotch to be considered for all the complexity you bring to the adventure. I could choose to drink cheap ass scotch, but I'm not there just to bust a nut, rather to share quality time having a lot of fun with someone who has their head and body in the game.

Before I continue I must confess you have a smokin' body, so don't sell yourself short there. You also know what you like and aren't afraid to let the guys know, which is good. If only I were smart enough to pay attention... Both of those set you in the top tier in my opinion. I find your rates to be just fine, and if it weren't for that issue between us I would have seen you more myself. I recommend you highly to anyone who asks, and you always turn heads when you enter the room.

So, if someone is telling you to lower your rates because of an arbitrary thing like your age, send them off to eat a furburger somewhere else.
Marcus, I couldn't have said it myself.
  • Laz
  • 01-27-2012, 08:53 PM
While age impacts the things I evaluate, it is not a factor in my decision so my answer is you should charge the price that gets you the amount of business you want. That would be true if you are 21 or 51.
mature providers can definitely command a higher price, if they choose to. I now know a few 40+ ladies who have no problems with there 300+ rates, they do definitely add something the a equation because they have experience and confidence in their sexual skills. I honestly can't wait until I an eligible to become a resident of Cougar-ville.
DallasRain's Avatar
I think the reputation of a provider and the quality of the session should determine the donation.....no matter the age!
Mokoa's Avatar
  • Mokoa
  • 01-27-2012, 09:59 PM
No.

The ladies are free to set whatever rates they desire.

The gents are free to visit whoever they desire.

Simple as that.

I have never understood all the hand wringing about rates.