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Okay, so I have been struggling here. I had a well reviewed provider waste my time and No Show me. So I am questioning, do I put it on ECCIE to warn others, or do I chalk it up and go on. If I was to put it on here, it really isn't a review so where do I post it?

who was it...

Okay, so I have been struggling here. I had a well reviewed provider waste my time and No Show me. So I am questioning, do I put it on ECCIE to warn others, or do I chalk it up and go on. If I was to put it on here, it really isn't a review so where do I post it? Originally Posted by rtmc8078

Does it matter who it was? Let's just say so far this provider has excellent reviews. She did stand me up, and when I got in touch with her she told me she would make it up the next day, and you guessed it, she stood me up again.

who was it... Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

if i guess who it is will you tell me if im right...through a pm

well that sucks...well you can come see me honey

Does it matter who it was? Let's just say so far this provider has excellent reviews. She did stand me up, and when I got in touch with her she told me she would make it up the next day, and you guessed it, she stood me up again. Originally Posted by rtmc8078

if i guess who it is will you tell me if im right...through a pm Originally Posted by deacon

Can we play three guesses?

Does it matter who it was? Let's just say so far this provider has excellent reviews. She did stand me up, and when I got in touch with her she told me she would make it up the next day, and you guessed it, she stood me up again. Originally Posted by rtmc8078

It must matter since you brought this to the coed forum. Normally it is recommended that a gentleman wait 24-48 hours to allow the girl to make contact, explain what happened (as we all know, life happens) and offer to make it up to the gentleman. In this case she has had two opportunities to make things right, so it is fair to mention her name, it seems to me. On the other hand, what good does it do? The decision is entirely up to you.

The 'what good does it do' part is to save others from wasting their time.

The 'what good does it do' part is to save others from wasting their time. Originally Posted by bartipero

Yes, maybe. What if it hasn't happened with this girl in the past and won't in the future? It is possible something caused her to be concerned about her safety.

To answer your other question, the Coed Discussion forum is the right place to post about a NC/NS.

If she stood you up twice, its on her and she needs to own her mistakes. You called her out on the board, so now its time to name names.

If she had felt there would be any problems with her safety, then she shouldn't have made the appointments period. It doesn't harm anyone to say to a potential client, "I'm sorry, but I'm just not feeling comfortable and I'm not getting a good feeling. I know, I could be wrong and could be passing up on a wonderful client, but I have to do what makes me feel good and safe." I've said it and no guy has been upset with me yet, they understand.

well that sucks...well you can come see me honey Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

Kaylen, you should really make a trip to Wichita. I bet there would be lots of interest in your arrival!!

There are girls I see that I do not even have a plan "B". Others while they are usally there on time it is good practice to have a back up plan. Life happens. There is really car trouble that is not an easy fix. Hopefully it is a bump and not a slide. If you call a provider instead of 911 there is a remote chance your a goner.

I think it is fair if she hasnt lived up to what she promised...so i agree perfect forum...
she might also read this and realize she needs to step up!

Post it tactfully and with respect and she should understand

I forgot to add to my post and something everyone else has forgot to mention....it comes down to one word, respect.

Respect the time of others, respect the providers time as she has alloted a certain amount of time for your session with her and the providers need to respect the hobbyists time as its not always easy to sneak out of the house and away from the SO or work.