Is it me?? NCNS Ms. Sophia in Lake Charles

Called her, she called back, made arrangements to meet at the hotel in 10 minutes when she would call and tell me what room. Waited a while, then went home. No call even after 45 minutes. Now I hate to complain, and I realize things happen, but this is 4 NCNS out of 6 different providers I've tried in the last couple of months. Is LC just too small for some providers to take us seriously? I think the hobbyists here try to treat providers with respect, but it seems that street isn't always running both ways.
DallasRain's Avatar
Hey baby...who are the providers you are calling??
I just left lake Chuck and can say that I have never done a ncns there{or anywhere for that matter}..............I am not saying that I am perfect....shit has come up unexpectedly at last minute and I may cancel on short notice...but that does not happen much.


I believe that as a "professional",I should act that way!

Maybe you are calling the 'wrong girls".


hope ya find some fun!!
Nothing wrong with a cancel for cause, just have the common courtesy to get back with the guy ASAP and let them know, IMO.
I had a mutual NCNS the other night, a gentleman called me, we spoke for a bit. He asked me to call him back, I did, but it was a landline phone and it was busy. I was surprised to learn he had called me from a landline! Hotels, yes.... but a residential landline??? We never did get to meet and I will not call to inquire what happened, out of courtesy to him, not knowing who might be there if I DID try to call.
Common courtesy is severely lacking these days, on both sides of the fence.
runkle's Avatar
Man thats some a run of bad luck there. Man that really sucks. Or in this case, not. lol

Sorry, that was too easy to pass up.
  • Dbuck
  • 02-08-2012, 03:04 AM
I've had a couple of those here recently also. That's two out of the last two. There have been a few more in between a couple successful meetings.
Dallas: Not sure if this is a coincidence but you canceled on me twice within two hours of our apt. I took he word that she had a legit ament reason, but it makes you wonder. I guess a high volume provider will have some cancelations.
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{I do not consider myself high volume......I see 2 or 3 clients a day when I travel}

I did so snapper the first time because I got my period unexpectedly and felt horrible
and the second time was a scheduling conflict{I had to take care of pressing business at home,so i checked out early}
I did send emails with explanations though.

I am not saying that I am perfect....shit has come up unexpectedly at last minute and I may cancel on short notice...but that does not happen much.........I hope you understand and I am so sorry for any misunderstanding or inconvenience...I hope to meet you next trip and make it up to you baby!


I think alot of us providers get overwhelmed by real life and mess up once in awhile........so just be patient and good things will come to you!
Lovely Callie's Avatar
Especially those of us managing separate live it can be difficult.

Friendly Flogger, if I'm ever in LC I'll let you know! Maybe help make it up to you for a fellow provider lol
skeeter's Avatar
Callie ..... I don't know about him ... But I'm counting on you being in LC at some point ..... :-) ...... Just a little notice to make sure I'm in town please ..
Lake Charles was very nice to me when I went to visit!!!! Skeeter, I hope that our paths can cross eventually when I am passing through!!!
Especially those of us managing separate live it can be difficult.

Friendly Flogger, if I'm ever in LC I'll let you know! Maybe help make it up to you for a fellow provider lol Originally Posted by Lovely Callie
Thanks, I appreciate the offer.
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Callie ..... I don't know about him ... But I'm counting on you being in LC at some point ..... :-) ...... Just a little notice to make sure I'm in town please .. Originally Posted by skeeter
I will do sweetheart!
Snapper6057: not sure if this is a coincidence but you have NCNS me on several occasions, as well as shorted my rate. THIS IS WHY I IGNORE YOU. Also, stop using me as a reference, I'll give it to them, but you probably won't like it. Chanelle called me last week for a reference on you and i gave it to her. Told her you won't hurt her, are quick like a bunny and you will probably dick her down on her price, NCNS, or just short her rate. I checked back in with her and guess what she said? That you showed up for first appt, shorted her a little money and then made another appt, which you NCNS!!!! I also remember Sexialexis asking for a reference as well, and she said you didn't evens how up. So before you start talking shit to Dallas, about a cancellation that was given ahead of time, make sure your hands are clean. xoxo
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Snapper6057: not sure if this is a coincidence but you have NCNS me on several occasions, as well as shorted my rate. THIS IS WHY I IGNORE YOU. Also, stop using me as a reference, I'll give it to them, but you probably won't like it. Chanelle called me last week for a reference on you and i gave it to her. Told her you won't hurt her, are quick like a bunny and you will probably dick her down on her price, NCNS, or just short her rate. I checked back in with her and guess what she said? That you showed up for first appt, shorted her a little money and then made another appt, which you NCNS!!!! I also remember Sexialexis asking for a reference as well, and she said you didn't evens how up. So before you start talking shit to Dallas, about a cancellation that was given ahead of time, make sure your hands are clean. xoxo Originally Posted by AmberXoXo

thanks sugar!! you are 100% correct!