Sex Bruises

Ok it's not a secret that I like REALLY rough sex. Sometimes I do get bruised by hobbyists. It's not anyone's fault but if you saw me with a bruise would it bother you? If you knew you bruised a provider what would you do?
Get her a band-aid!
Doglegg's Avatar
Truthfully bruising turns me off, even if it is obvious sex bruising on the inside of her thighs.

Now if I'm the one leaving the bruising for the next guy to look at......well then yeah, of course it's a turn-on.

Dogg
If I see you with a mushroom shaped bruise across the forehead, it may be a little unsettling.
JMcB's Avatar
  • JMcB
  • 02-11-2012, 07:56 PM
TOTAL turn off!
Naughty_Jezabelle's Avatar
Yeah I would have to agree. I like a woman's body to looked "untouched". I see strippers with bruising and even though I know it's cause of the pole tricks I don't like it. I would think it would be the same for most guys but I can't speak for them.
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Yes, my ATF girl always leaves bruises on me where she puts her elbows on my chest as we CG. My S.O. once asked but I had a ready answer for her. Once however, I got a big hickie on my chest where she was biting me as she was cuming. I didn't try to explain that one - just left my t-shirt on for 2 weeks! lol
I can see someone trying to explain this to a case worker.

"I bruise her, because I love fucking her!"
Naughty_Jezabelle's Avatar
Jj you are effin hilarious
Willen's Avatar
Well, each of us is different. I have to admit that I've been with a couple of ladies who bore bruises/bite marks. As somebody who himself likes it on the rough side (going both ways), I found it a turn on because I took it as a signal of how you liked to play. (This assumes of course that if somebody had abused you, you'd say so in order that I did not get the wrong idea.)

But I can well understand why lots, if not most folks, would find it a turn off.
hhmmm.........WHen did you say you were touring Houston, again?.............smile
thatdude210's Avatar
Definitely a turn off.

What would I do if I bruised a provider, but she made it clear she likes it rough? Nothing.
Bobave's Avatar
Yes, definitely a turn off -
Turnoff for me. Pull out the Dermablends Concealer. I don't want to see bruising that some other guy left on you. If I new she got it from Climbing, hiking or just being outdoors. Turn on! Now your questions on what would I do if I bruised you. Nothing. I really doubt in our activities I would bruise you. I don't bruise my dance partners. So I'm certainly not going to bruise the person I'm sleeping with. Not my style.
Mature Companion's Avatar
Part of enjoying yourself sexually, is enjoying the nature of the beast when it comes to sex marks left behind.

I'm not into rough sex. But I have a serious skin fetish and love to be lightly bitten and such, it entails leaving red marks (that do not break the skin) on my soft creamy white skin. I enjoy MY type of pleasure and not ashamed of the trail of pleasure left behind on my skin. Even if they're there a week later.




Ok it's not a secret that I like REALLY rough sex. Sometimes I do get bruised by hobbyists. It's not anyone's fault but if you saw me with a bruise would it bother you? If you knew you bruised a provider what would you do? Originally Posted by Malaya