gwenetx fair is fair

Its a sham when a provider wants personal information to screen a hobbies but when the hobbies ask for the same information to screen a provider all of the sudden you become a motherfucker and a few other choice words
What fair is fair if you want to screen me then be willing to be screened yourself what do you have to hide we both are taking risk here
it don't pay to be nice to some people.like GWENSETX

Basic info needed. Same as needed for p411

Why want the provider give the hobbies the same as she requires of him

I am not an "equal opportunity provider" - I require screening as I see fit. If that bothers someone, they have the option to move on, or fuck off, if you will. I earned my good reputation in the hobby 10 years ago, and my recent reviews from hobbyists are testament as such. These reviews serve as my references. I DO NOT require that everyone submit their employment data. If anyone actually reads my booking page, they can see which methods I accept. End of story. If you don't like that, too bad, so sad.

Basic info needed. Same as needed for p411 Originally Posted by ilovedatass

Looking forward to meeting you next week ;-)

If the provider has a rep and credible reviews, you don't need her personal information. Her reputation is at stake if she provides a bad experience.
If you have credible references, she wouldn't ask for personal information. The choice is yours. Many guys aren't comfortable with that and you can move on.

PS Gwen, have fun in Louisiana

Bert and Ilovedatass are both fantastic guys

PS Gwen, have fun in Louisiana

Bert and Ilovedatass are both fantastic guys Originally Posted by heidilynnla

Thank you! I'm looking forward to it!

The word discretion mean not telling. Anyone if you contact another provider for reference then right off the bat you just proven you kiss and tell.

So basically you kiss and tell keep records
and you only have one review at last check your not well reviewed yet.with that attitude. You want be

Basic businesses 101 if all parties are not honest and open someone always loses now who will it be

Isn't one thread on this enough?

A provider can screen any way she desires, IMHO. I have to make the decision whether or not I am goning to see her or not. If she asks for info I am not comfortable giving I move on, simple.

I do not see a need to complain publicly, but that's just me. I had one lady insist on calling my place of employment to verify me - not gonna happen. I haev over 10 reviews on this site, I am a mod, i have more than 2 refs and that is all I am comfortable with releasing, that's it. If that is not enough for the provider, I tell her "No, I will not see you." Simple.

Do you have refs you can supply to her? Because I know people have had that problem where hobbyiest is regular of one lady but she gets upset when you see another lady (loss of income in her mind) and yes this does happen. So, maybe reluctant to give recent ref, idk?

Either way, I agree being honest and straightforward is the way to go, and if she still will not see you - so what! Plenty of other ladies here! I would tell her what I am willing to release and ask her for info I need, if she is unwilling to release - have a good day!

This is not Rocket Science , people!

If a girl has a good reputation , including several good reviews , from several well known and verified gents... she becomes legit in my book.

If a guy has a good reputation , including several good references, from several well known and verified girls , including several P411 okays.... he should be considered as legit to any reasonable working girl.

If each are experienced and verified players... there is "zero" need for personal I.D. info to be given... PERIOD!

If you're an absolute newbie... all bets are off!

If some of us don't want to be reasonable and respectful of "everyone's" own discretionary needs.... move on , and enjoy time with someone else.

I have no problem with the system as is. If I did, I would just move on.

What exactly is he asking for when it comes to this hobbyist screening her? Basic info would require name, email, handles and all the "basic info" which can be tracked using an email or phone number for the gents. If he sees a providers info from boards such as this, p411 or datecheck...wouldnt a showcase, an ad or a google search satiate a mans questions? honey are you looking for real name, real life info, and all that good stuff?