"He threatened to expose me..."

Shiloh Stevens's Avatar
"He threatened to expose me...because I would not see him again."

Hypothetical Situation:
Ladies have you ever been threatened or blackmailed by a client who insists that you continue to see him?
How prevalent is this?
What have you done as a result?
Gentlemen...what are your thoughts?
BaldGuy82's Avatar
Who could he expose you to? I mean unless you tell him things or invite him to your house or out with your friends. Or if he calls the police but that would mean he is telling on himself.
Wakeup's Avatar
How hypothetical is this?
Just tell him you're going to stab him with an AIDS needle if he carries on...
Well if he is a client that is paying full rate. What is the issue? I could see a problem if he threatened to out you if you didn’t want to see him off the clock.
Shiloh Stevens's Avatar
Just tell him you're going to stab him with an AIDS needle if he carries on... Originally Posted by Valerie
Too funny!

Just wondering how vulnerable one can be if a client becomes obsessed and you as a provider no longer want to see him.
NIKKILOVE's Avatar
Don't let people get to you.

As I said in another post, there are always ass holes who do not have a clue when it comes to being an adult or respecting us as women. But, trust that one person making waves when no one else has had any problems with you, is going to out his own self as a retard. Guys on this site, can be very mean, but when it comes to defending the ladies and putting the assholes in their place, you can garantee if he trys to cause you problems, at least on this site, he will know that is not gonna work with the real men.

And just think about what ChickenFried said, and remember that in the heat of the moment people say things they know they would never do, he has no ground to stand on, and when he calms down, he will realize that.
Dont worry your self over people like that.
Stalion's Avatar
Nikkilove has it right. +1
im still wondering how he would go about outing you. Play it safe from day one. dont tell him your real name, where you work, where you live or any other personal details on yourself.