Would I still have to go through giving references to providers as I do now once I get enough oks, basically meaning it wouldn't even be worth paying for it?
Originally Posted by jl11
This is totally dependent on the providers screening. Usually I send two ladies info as a ref but if your in a situation where you want to screen fast (especially if your on business and not in your local area) while allieviating her screening concerns having p411 oks might save her the step of having to contact the refs. On average in my exploits only half of the ladies I contacted via p411 contacted a ref. And especially touring ladies with more unbalanced schedules when arriving may consider having a certain amount of local refs sufficient.
Some ladies look at contacting a ref as a potential "twatswat" (better rate deals from ref...."why didn't you call me, I would give you a banging rate and a better time no risk." "Cancel with her, and come see me.") and follow their own intuition on verifying you.
Can I get accepted with just references bc I will never give out my work into to anyone in this hobby.
Originally Posted by jl11
You can get accepted with just references, but if your particular ref doesn't remember you..........(here's a few tricks to help her remember you specifically at this link.....
http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=1862054&postcount=7 ) she will definitely not deny giving you the ok and it may pad her memory. Using the ref only method makes for much longer email and explanations possibly to pad your refs memory.
Another thing I like about p411 is if you don't hobby at times for extended periods (civilian relationship, money woes, brief hobby retirement, etc) , you can always resupply current refs or see a provider who would only require membership and not refs to start hobbying safely again. She would see that you had a track record of other ladies you saw periodically with approved oks.