Swingers club recommendation?

After a recent trip to a strip club with my SO, she has expressed a very strong desire to have a FFM threesome. Rather than risk any of our friendships trying to Recruit any of our friends or risk the dangers of Craigslist. I suggested we try a swingers club, I just have no idea where to begin looking. We are both professional people, but I would rather not have to get dressed up in a shirt and tie on the weekends. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't show up in ripped jeans and a t-shirt, and she always looks hot.

Can anyone star me in the right direction? We are looking for someone to kind of "teach" us. It would probably be more girl on girl, with maybe a little oral on me, to start with, and see where it goes. We have no interest in any swapping, or bringing another guy into the equation, just another girl.

Is a swingers club the right direction? If so, can anyone recommend one that's layed back, and not a dance club atmosphere? And fill me in a little on the edicate?

Thanks!

I was just thinking of asking one of the providers to maybe accompany me to one in a few weeks, so I don't have first hand experience. I have heard the 13th Floor as being good but have to make reservations and I thought I read that it's not a younger crowd there. Iniquity I've heard is the younger crowd but I don't think activities can be done there. I know there are a few more that members will mention with more details. These two I mentioned have websites.
I look forward to reading about your visit?

You can always get a provider to join you too, many of them will do couples.

The 13th Floor is my favorite. The Velvet Curtain is a little more of a younger crowd for the most part but not entirely. Place is a lot smaller though. 13th Floor has great space, accomodations and the people that run it are awesome!

Thanks HD. We would have serious reservations about partaking in any activities in the club. We'd prefer the privacy of a hotel room or we could host for the main event.
And I highly doubt convincing her to "directly" paying for it is a good idea.

Well, it will still cost you entry fee, so that's similar to paying for it as with a provider. And like BBW said, the 13 Floor is a nice place I've heard and there is no unwanted shenaigans going on from what I hear. Though you may or may not have one or more people watching you have fun. But I'm sure you will find someone to make contact with for a later date.

Check out the latest.....
Velvet Curtain (new location)
The Marble Door (Dallas)
Dream Acres (Rockwall)

The Marble Door is drawing be largest crowd. It is "on premise"....owners are the same as the old Jet Set (now closed).

More info on swinglifestyle.com (SLS) and swingdateclub.com (SDC)

from my visits to them, both the 13th floor and Velvet Curtain...
* have an entrance fee [$60-75 or so per couple for fri/sat nites. VC is also open on wednesdays]. so, 1/3 or less what one might pay a provider for an hour of consultation. plus, at the clubs, that fee is for as long as you want to stay or they close, whichever comes first.
* have public [watching and/or engaging in] and private areas. the private areas are larger rooms w/ sheer curtains separating each bed. so, not a closed off room or anything. the only folks allowed in there are folks who want to get it on; no observers.
at the 13th Fl and VC, there is a totally open public area [no curtains] and at 13th Fl a curtained off area. in both areas, people can watch and, if you want, they can participate. you control if they do or dont - "No" means NO!

13th Fl is larger and had more people there [when i went last spring], some 20s, mostly 40-60s or so.
VC is smaller and had fewer people there [when i went last spring and summer], same age range. many of the woman i saw there were much heavier than the women at 13th Fl.

in both places, you have to get there earlier so they can collect info, fees, and show you around. all the staff were friendly and helpful. tho, it'd be cool if they pointed out who loves to play and who doesnt :^)

both places are On-Premises - meaning you can engage in sex there. some clubs, like Iniquity, After Midnight [in euless], and Marble Door or Off-Premises - meaning you cant.

the odds of you walking into 13th Fl or VC and finding a woman to play/have sex with are pretty low. not to say it wont happen, but it seemed to me that at both clubs there were some groups of people who mostly stayed to themselves. you can up your odds if you go several, if not many times, to get to know folks and they get to know you. you pay an entrance fee each time. they might have memberships or other multi-visit discounts. call and find out.

do a search for "swingers" or "13th floor" or "velvet curtain" in this forum and you'll find several articles. also look in the "Another Realm" forum on eccie's home page.

good luck and hope you and your SO get to have a deliteful time.