So it seems . .

Why does it seem like im doing everything wrong . i promise ive been reading stickys & following the rules trying to get a warm welcome to this site . but it seems like every time my name is brought up somebody has something negative to say about me . other people see that & automatically think im a bad person & im NOT . people could be a little more accepting & welcoming rather then negative & rude , especially to the newbies !! On humaniplex this kind of negativity would be spoke down upon! any advice on what i should do would be appreciated !

xoxo
Alaska .

Please don't let one bad apple ruin it for you. I might come see you soon and make my own opinion. I'll pm you soon.

im trying not too . constructive criticism is appreciated . & ok that sounds good (:

you're on a forum where guys talk about you like you're a product, because...you are.

when money is involved, you should probably not take it personally.

you're on a forum where guys talk about you like you're a product, because...you are.

when money is involved, you should probably not take it personally. Originally Posted by thatguybonzo

So true, Alaska it's your business run it how bests fit your comfort level. But please understand that when the guys talk about you it's about the service level you provide not you as a person. Like every consumer, we all try to get the most bang for the buck. Pun intended.

we all try to get the most bang for the buck.

Excuse me?!? (:

yes i agree maybe i shouldnt take it personally . i actually just listen to what everyone has to say & use it to be a better provider . i mean if nobody ever spoke on it i would never know right ! But at the same time , how can someone talk about the "service level" i provide if they have NEVER met me first hand ? i do appreciate the tips though.. lol thanks for the suggestions guys . (:

If you put yourselves in your customers' shoes' at all, you know the difference between when you are doin it the way it should be done and when you only see a client as a means to an end. if you provide a subpar (and im not saying you do cause ive never seen you) service, then dont expect to develop good and/or enduring business relationships with your clients

subpar service as in what my menu is ? becuase i see alot of girls offer ALOT more then i do . maybe that has something to do with it too .. hmm .

subpar service as in what my menu is ? becuase i see alot of girls offer ALOT more then i do . maybe that has something to do with it too .. hmm . Originally Posted by SeductiveAlaska

Limited menu is why I have personally never given you a call.

Originally Posted by SeductiveAlaska
subpar service as in what my menu is ? becuase i see alot of girls offer ALOT more then i do . maybe that has something to do with it too .. hmm .

I think maybe you hit the nail on the head with that statement. I would NEVER suggest that a lady change her menu. It depends on the lady and how much business she would like. A lady has to do what she is comfortable with, and the guys will spend their money accordingly. As for me, I am a gfe guy which limits my possibilities, and there are many others on here that feel the same. Ranch

yes im starting to notice that the majority of people on here do gfe & WANT gfe . i dont know ive just never been comfortable & when im not comfortable the guy wont have a good time , simply because ill feel awkward . dont get me wrong i LOVE what i do but i wouldnt love to do gfe . & even though my menu is limited i still feel like its worth it !

If you feel comfortable with your menu, and feel that its worth it, and it gets you all the business you desire, then that is all that matters. Ranch

Let me say this there is GFE and then there is Good GFE. I look for good GFE.

If you feel comfortable with your menu, and feel that its worth it, and it gets you all the business you desire, then that is all that matters. Ranch Originally Posted by Ranchhand

Ditto. I would never suggest that a lady change her menu or ever depart from anything she is comfortable with.

For many of us, the difference between a routine "BP experience" and a verified board member GFE experience is a HUGE difference. The "allusion" of passion, the inclusion of DATY and BBBJ is what many board member hobbyists seek.

If a verified provider offers the same "menu" and pricing as other BP ladies, then the benefit comes down to ones' sense of "security" and a piece of mind of having a "known" aspect to the encounter.

For those that simply want to "get off" as quickly and cheaply as possible, CL (formerly) and BP have always fit that bill.

Alaska, in general, I see nothing wrong here.

My advice in general, to any lady breaking in here from BP or a non-board site:

1) Keep your pics current

2) Stay drama free

3) Provide good TCB skills (return calls, texts, PMs in a timely manner)

4) Provide good BCD skills (somewhere/somehow, there needs to be a clear understanding of what "services" are and/or are not available)

5) Let a lot of "stuff" that is said roll off your back.....

These 5 things will give you a good basis.

(FWIW, your website has great pics, to include face pics. It also has your rates and services listed as well as your phone number and TER number). I will send you a PM with a recommended wording change in one spot.


Best of luck to you!

Respectfully,

OldSarge