Would You Date A Hobbyist/Provider?

If you found someone you REALLY connected with sexually and emotionally would you date them? Only if they feel the same way of course. How would you feel if they still participated in the hobby?
  • Laz
  • 03-13-2012, 03:27 PM
Yes. As for continueing as a provider I don't know. It is not something I have experienced so I am not sure I could handle it.
blaktygre's Avatar
I have before. As long as there was an understanding of business vs personal between both parties I dont/didnt see a problem. Definitely the two could not mix and both need to know when to turn the biz portion off.
sanantonioman37's Avatar
I would. If she kept providing, I would expect her to share every dirty detail with me.
If there was a connection, sure...why not? The question of exclusivity would come up at some point - as it does in all relationships. If the business end can really be separated then fine.
Why not, it can be very interesting to say the least!
foxyred73's Avatar
i agree to all of the above ....the person will love you know matter what you do for a living.
darter's Avatar
I've done it a twice and once it lasted for quite some time. We both kept doing what we were doing before, but had our "couple" times. We are still friends and have an occasional rendezvous. The other was quick and painless. She wanted to continue to provide but didn't want me to see anyone else. I haven't seen her in a long time.
I could...... but if she wont stop than neither will I........Why the question Malaya? who do you have your eyes on...lol
foxyred73's Avatar
carguy2442 ....i think the post that footlong wrote about alien sex ...not to long ago
foghorn's Avatar
I'm good with it....
carguy2442 ....i think the post that footlong wrote about alien sex ...not to long ago Originally Posted by foxyred73
?? The guy I was talking to? He's just an awesome friend and one of my faves!
I could...... but if she wont stop than neither will I........Why the question Malaya? who do you have your eyes on...lol Originally Posted by carguy2442
LOL I was just curious. There is one whom I wouldn't mind playing with a LOT more often.
foxyred73's Avatar
malya...oh ok ..i saw it diffent side than you did....how it come off from that other post.. spring in the air...
blaktygre's Avatar
if there is sparks, chemistry, fireworks,etc..then why not persue it? you can't predict where you will find true romance....worked for me for about a year...