Getting established

This is probably a rerun though I haven't seen it directly addressed or answered. How does one get established here? I have learned that one of the cardinal rules is screen, screen, screen, and then screen some more. That completely screens me out. I've seen two ladies on our board. One last November and she doesn't remember me (there's an ego booster) and the other last month. I don't have the heart to ask her (yes I am sometimes a pussy when it comes to pussy). I wouldn't at all mind revisiting these ladies. An exceptionally classy member here has graciously offered to help me out. And any more advice/suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

Preferred411.com got me thought the door, use it and u will be glad you did!

Write reviews of the ladies. We will be gentle on you on your review. Well except for maybe BB.

Centralarnewguy is absolutely correct. Join preferred411.com. They will screen you using your employment. Then newbie-friendly ladies will feel more secure about seeing you...and once you have an ok or 2, everything else will fall into place.

Reviewing someone won't help you if the provider doesn't remember you. It might even be counterproductive. While reviews are a good way to find out who someone says they've spent time with, the provider must ultimately confirm the client's info. Otherwise, it seems suspicious.

That's another great thing about p411...once a provider clicks "ok", it stays viewable on your profile despite any provider memory lapses.

What she said!

What she said! Originally Posted by Centralarnewguy

That's what he said.

The ladies will start asking for taint pics ... I advise posting them.

The ladies will start asking for taint pics ... I advise posting them. Originally Posted by pyramider

Urban Dictionary: taint
The area between the nutsack and asshole that prevent a man from shitting on his nuts.

Hmmm. I think I'll stick with more appetizing methods of screening. ijs

Write reviews of the ladies. We will be gentle on you on your review. Well except for maybe BB. Originally Posted by shorty

Now, Shorty, you know I only lose my patience when I haven't had my morning coffee or the wine cellar is running low on the pinot grigio. Or on occasion when someone is just a brick shy of a full load.

Seriously, Shorty's right. Become involved and participate. Don't be afraid to ask questions.

Use both of your references. Seriously, the ladies don't mind and aren't territorial. There's plenty of business for all.

Do a little research. There are some really fine providers who are newbie friendly and find ways to verify you. We have been blessed with the intersection of I-30 and I-40 bringing a lot of touring providers this way. Many of them will work with you to get screened.

When you get ready to write a review, read the sticky notes at the top of the review thread and cover all the bases. Sure it takes a little time, but you'll find it pays off in the long run.

You might be dipping into your hobby budget, but spring for premium access before obtaining it by writing reviews. The information available to you will assist with research and give you access to the Men's Lounge to ask questions and seek advice you might not wish to do in a coed environment.

Most of all, be patient and play safe!

Thank you all for your insightfulness and longevity. Here I sit after a good round of great sex. Enjoyed it immensely not near the level as those who have gone before me. Thinking well it's only 3:00 AM time to start searching again.

BB thanks. You, as well as many others, encourage this noble, though somewhat dick-driven, quest.

. . . You, as well as many others, encourage this noble, though somewhat dick-driven, quest. Originally Posted by RadarMan

While we all succumb to please the little head, make sure your thinking with the big one and PLAY SAFE!

Yeah I agree with Centralarnewguy. Writing reviews what shorty said would be awesome too.

Both my heads enjoy being under Sovanna!

Being on top ain't bad either, Central!

Lol ya'll silly.