Lasvegas vs Ember

Ember Simmers's Avatar
I'll start from the beginning.... and try to make it quick--------

Real cool trick. He would come for an hour/multiple hours to my hotel room and we would talk + services. As he wrote in past revews under "Samantha Eros"... i do MSOG.. he had a great time.

Then when I would come to San Antonio, he would want a whole day. Because he came so often I gave him I ridiculousy good rate for a day.
We would go to movies, lunch, dinner, whatever he wanted to do.
We would also spend much time at his office, while he worked???? And then would bring his workers to lunch with us.

He flew my to San An (because I was woking in another city), Fun Day.

He flew my to Baltimore. Where I sat in on a dinner business meeting with a guy that he was trying to do business with (Very important meeting, not sure why he brought an escort to it.... but each to their own). Fun trip, great room.

(I think i'm skipping some meetings, but all the same happened. We spent the day together and did whatever he asked to do).

Then before Vegas he called and asked "if I really want to go" and I was a little confused. I think he is asking me this because I will not add him on facebook (Sorry I try as much as possible to keep my private life separate. no Offence to anyone). I did consider him a friend but more a "work friend", one that you would help out, but you dont hang out with outside of work. Then everything start clicking: This guy is getting emotional. I should have never given him my real cell phone number because he would text me during the day "How are you?" "Good morning" "How is work".... me thinking they were leading up to him wanting to schedule an appt, but No, he just wanted to talk..... So on the phone says "you have been texting a lot on your phone like you dont want to even talk to me while we are together. Your friends dont pay you to hang out like I do" ... I respond "I didnt mean to be rude while texting when we were together, I am going to respond to someone if I need to, just as you always answer your phone when we are together, I do the same. Furthermore, not to be a bitch, but technically you pay for 4 hours out of the 24hrs we are together, so please dont get on my for texting. And any time I needed to really talk I would tell you I needed to step away." ..... bla bla bla... i told him I would not be hanging out with him if I did not want to, and he should have nothing to worry about. He told me that yes, he gets worked up about stuff and sorry. End of convo.

VEGASSSSS time: I get to his house, leave my lap top inside so it doesnt get stolen out of my car that is in his driveway. We leave and he seems way less than happy. which is kind of a bummer considering IT IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! Yes, the day we leave for Vegas (the 22nd) is my birthday. So My phone was blowing up with calls and texts and sorry if that was rude, I was answering them. We get to Vegas (he is still not talking and seems very worn out and keeps telling me he is just tired), go to room, eat, gamble, then he wants to go to the room early because he is tired. He showers gets in bed, I am still cleaning up and getting ready for bed. Get there, he asks how to turn the light above him off, I show him. He doesnt say another word, so I go to bed.
Next morning I tell him it will take me about an hour to get ready, he goes to gamble comes back and we leave to to do stuff (gun range, gamble). He wants to come back up to the room to "take a nap" practically falls asleep on the couch. I told him i had to call my neice back who had called to wish me happy bithday which I didnt answer because we were together. He says ok. I get done, and he is in the bed asleep. I stay in the other room to not wake him. He then wakes up, tells me to come to the bed, then we start talking about how i never looked up tattoos and he tells me to look it up. Ten minutes later he says "are you still looking that up?" I say "yes i havent found anything yet, you said it like its bad?" he says "no". Then gets up and like runs out of the whole entire pent house and i yell "are you ok?" and he doesnt answer. 10 minutes later he comes back and says "Are you ready to leave?" and i was like "Oh do we need to leave?" (Thinking he had an emergency and we had to go, that's how upset he looked).

He proceeds to tell me that I wont give him s** and he has sent bookies after girls like me who are trying to rip them off" I was like "whoa whoa whoa.... if you want it, ask, I cant read your mind"
so we come to the conclusion that he just has to ask. i told him we are not in a relationship, and its not my job to "read signs and signals".....
(Spending all day with a guy is a lot different than when a guy comes to a hotel room for a short session where you get right down to business)

We go to a show. He hardly talks to to me. We sit down and his bipolar comes out again and he says "I'm sorry about earlier" and i told him to not be sorry. After show, he then wants to gamble some more and then wants to go to the room. We get there and I go to the restroom like any normal human being. I come out and he is flipping out again. Saying "Why are you going to the bathroom to sneak off to talk to people in the bathroom? Are you looking for flights home? are you just going to leave?" I was like, once again, "whoa whoa whoa.... i had to take a shit.... chill out" ..... (mind u, he doesnt shower after he shits, iv noticed... so he is retarded for saying that I dont... its not like i leave it on me.. come on now people). He then starts following me around talking about how I am lying and I was in there trying to leave and talk to people and like... I havent had a problem talking on my phone in front of him before. So why is he tripping out? Soooo tripping that i really think he is on drugs. I try to calm him down like, "Its all good, its not like that." and get in bed. I sent one text to my mom about how I had won some money and it didnt go through, i resent it when we were in the bed and he flips AGAIN. Starts calling me a liar and I was like. Oh my gosh, I cant take this, and get up and tell him that he is being rediculous, I cant even go to the bathroom with out him going crazy on me. And he is like, because you're a liar then starts calling me a whore and all these things. I pack my stuff and leave. Of course i forget my purse in the room, knock, no answer... like 50 times.... had to practically break down the door for him to come to it. I get my purse and he starts yelling down the hall that I'm a whore Nigger this... whore nigger that. (Man i just WISH there would have been a black person in the hall, because come on now, we have to use that kind of language?)
He then finds me in the lobby and tells me to come back up to the room "lets be adults about this"... and i didnt say this but in my head, *you justs screamed that im a whore nigger down the hall, have been texting me bout all kinda of profanities (sp?) and you want me to come back to your room? you have got to be crazy.* I even gave him back his IPOD that was in my purse at that point....... I have no intensions on STEALING from anyone. I just wanted to get the EFF out of there because I have never had a trick go so insane. I told him that I already had a room and thank you and he left.

The next day it got worse, he started constantly texting me talking about how my parents did a terrible job raising me and where did they go wrong raising such a whore nigger like me. And all this stuff....... it was long. And i was trying my HARDEST to not respond, i'm not big on petty fighting.

But I posted on blacklist (a site for those who need to be outted as bad) That this guy was threatening me and to be cautious. I only had his "real number" to post, so other girls will know when he calls to be cautious.

Two days later, I start having people calling me telling me the exact address and businesses of my family and they are coming to them to get money. Lasvegas thinks I owe him money..... in a 24 hour period you couldnt come up with a time to say LET'S DO IT!?! ... if he falls asleep while we are together, he still has to pay for time. I did not steal from him. That goes for ANYONE that wants to book with me.

Somewhere in his "review" he said that i only gave him bj and would leave (gross and maybe TMI for some, but there was so much fat around his thing, that it would hardly stay in me and I could never get him off that way and it would always keep coming out.... and he would tell me to "just use lube and hj". SOOOO, there was a REASON for that--- me only doing what HE wanted)

**** This whole situation to me seems like a huge misunderstanding. Providing Services is my job! and have been doing it JUST fine for him for 4 months. And for any other male who comes. He kept telling me he was tired and literally seeming tired... not the flirty "hey im tired, lets go to the room." Maybe he was just having a bad day or other things were going on in his life, I dont know, but the way he was acting was not normal and I had to leave. Simple as that.

**** Oh and PS.... he told me to bring my dog. I was going to leave him with someone at home and he told me No, that they would let him stay in the pent house.

**** Men might be bigger and paying, but that gives you NO right to be so rude and call me names and threaten me.... and YES, i will make you leave my room or me leave your room every single time.

Hope this clears up any misunderstandings. I would never NOT give services... I LIKE SEX..... i actually like giving bj too... a lot!!! (so like I said earlier, that's what I had to do to him, and I liked it).


Hope to see others and have fun!!!!

OH- I dont exactly have anything Bad to say about this man... He seemed nice. Hopefully was just having a bad day. I would just caution to not spend a lot of time with him; maybe there are just other issues I can't help or fix. Other than this weird and scary experience for me, he had been fun and very nice. But having people calling to threaten my family.... not cool. (or funny, or nice, or any of that)

That is all
Marcus78's Avatar
I didnt mean to be rude while texting when we were together, I am going to respond to someone if I need to, just as you always answer your phone when we are together, I do the same. Furthermore, not to be a bitch, but technically you pay for 4 hours out of the 24hrs we are together, so please dont get on my [sic] for texting.
So it's acceptable to answer a phone while you're with a PAYING client? Or did I miss something? You said he was paying for only 4 hours, but you were on a trip with him. I thought the whole purpose of traveling with a provider is to have a companion for the duration of your trip/vacation. Granted, you won't be having sex the whole time, but aren't we paying for company for the whole day?

If you are on a trip with him, he's paying you for your time, so if he wants to talk on the phone, play chess, talk, or whatever, it's okay. The two are in no way comparable, IMHO. When you're at work (any job, not just this hobby world) texting is never okay. Because you're being paid for your time, and your job description does not include texting while on the clock. Just my .02...

The rest (both his and your story) is composed of unsubstantiated hearsay, so people will decide as they will. Regardless of what parts are true (I'm sure some of both stories are true, but not all of them) this whole thing has raised a huge warning flag for me. But I think that one sentence about texting while on the job/in session speaks volumes...
I read 1/3 of it, and my head hurts because I'm trying to understand what she is saying. Thanks for the rebuttal. It's good to hear from both sides of an argument.
thank you for taking the time ember.....
Mature Companion's Avatar
This again??? Wasn't this whole drama topic of you & Vegas, closed in an earlier thread??????
So you & Vegas have issues. Move on! Stop seeing each other and chalk it up to you two not being being a provider/client fit in this adult lifestyle.
Ember Simmers's Avatar
-I really never said my side of the story, So a moderator suggested starting a thread because that one was closed. That is why I did this.
-And yes, sorry, hard to understand, was trying not to make it a novel.

and @Marcus 1) your profile picture is rather destracting haha, funny.
2) I understand your confusion. I was just stating that I only made him pay 1000... technically that is only 4 hours of my day. (i charge $250 an hr) but i knew that he likes to do things, see shows, go to nice restaurants and was a regular, so I gave him a good discount. I have a two people who I know that know I do this, and through out the day they check on me and make sure that no crazy trick has come in and killed me or beaten me up. I check in with them. And I also have family that I'm sorry, i'm not going to ignore for a whole day. Thats just how my family is. I dont respond for a whole 24 hours and like a search crew goes out. Me texting was NEVER a sit in the corner and text for an hour... this was a quick text maybe 4 times a day. I never bring out my phone when i do incalls for the hourly sessions all of my time goes to you. But when "lasvegas" pays for a whole day to hung out and is sitting on his bed watching the spurs game on tv, i'm gonna check my phone real quick. If he wants to turn it into a big deal, then he is a big baby.
Also, in Las Vegas... it was my birthday, yes i'm going to answer my cell phone, sorry. And two. i'm gone for 5 days, yes you pay for companionship but i think some people would be freaking out if I didnt respond for 5 days. And many times when i texted it was a text that said "cant talk right now, working."
I think I have explained enough. I understand your point marcus about that he is paying for time, But telling someone they arent allowed to do something is ridiculous. It was never rude (Like in the middle of him and my conversation, or while we were at the Gun range, or while we were walking around) it was all in downtime.

I have definitely learned a lesson and will be sure to ask any gentleman on a day date next time if it ok first to check my phone, as that might be more polite. I am never wanting to make someone seem like I am uninterested/ready to leave, any of that.... i really do like what I do. Never meant to be rude. As I told him that.
Mokoa's Avatar
  • Mokoa
  • 03-19-2012, 01:01 AM
Very well.

You have had your day in court.

As far as I am concerned...

This issue is closed.

Please, no one is to bring it up again.

End of discussion.