Is it better/safer to incall or outcall?

I'm always nervous about meeting someone at a hotel. Seems like all the stings happen that way. I'm not all that worried about having someone to my home. It's not like the providers are wearing a sign or anything and I feel a bit more in control. Though I guess venturing out to a strange location can add an element of "danger". I dunno what do y'all think?

Hey Dreamer,

I'm pretty new at this, so don't take my advice, but I've only seen dates at my hotel rooms. I feel more comfortable in these random settings. I travel ALOT, so it just fits my eye and the convenience factor works for me. my .02

HOOK'EM

theres always a sense of caution at hotel incalls for me... but you'l maintain this caution if youre seeing new girls for every arrangement... the well reviewed, respectable and professional women are whom i prefer due to safety and comfort although i understand the temptation of a tasteful newbie you might see on bp or cl

I do mostly incall, and 9 times out of 10 it is at a hotel. If it is the first time i am seeing a provider, i usually cruse the parking lot looking for signs of LE. I have never found any, and i am not sure what exactly to look for, but anything suspicious. I would also be leery of an adjoining room.

I can only think of one time when I saw someone Incall w/o a prior review. I know some one has to be the 1st to take the plunge, but right now, I'm sicking w/ providers that are well reviewed or I know from previous rendez-vous.

Dreamer - if there's one thing I learned from the movie Risky Business - don't have a provider over to your house (even if she looks like Rebecca De Mornay)! Keep that a safe area - never know what trouble she might bring along.

Back in the mid-nineties I had a provider who came to my apartment who brought a friend with her. No, we did not have a ménage à trois. She stayed in the living room while we discussed politics and religion on my waterbed. A couple of months later I got some unexpected charges on my checking account. Guess who had lifted a book of my checks from my apartment?

Okay, I still had girls come over to my apartment, but no friends staying in the living room unless they joined us in bed. Lesson learned.

"Don't ever invite a vampire into your house, you silly boy" (Lost Boys). Seriously, never at the domicile. If they refuse to provide incall service, or are unable due to other reasons, spring for a 'no-tell' somewhere. Better safe than sorry.