Hey Sugar,
You know I'm a simple man and some of your issues may have shot right over my head (I had some whiskey for lunch LOL)......
But think of it like this, we got together last summer and had a real good time, for a long time, right.
So even though that was a scheduled meeting, it could have also happened because we were at the same bar and hit it off, then one thing let to another...But I don't have time to hang out in bars anymore and I doubt if you do either.....so we just cut out the BS and still had a wild time, just two consenting adults enjoying each other with no harm done.
Peace,
BBQ