MMM Im under pickupkid, all I can say is treat it like a delicate flower, stroke it and pet it, dont bite or suck too hard...with a little bit of FIV....that will get me flowing !!
Those are basic techniques and I agree I am not a fan of the licking letters on her clit. In my experience most women (everyone is different) enjoy the up and down motion of the tongue. I think the key is learning the woman. My ex loved for me to flick the edges of her clit with my tongue, another woman asked me not to do that!!! Learn your partner and give her what she desires.
The reason face sitting is so popular is she is in more control of where she wants my tongue and the amount of pressure.
A little anatomy 101 - the male penis is formed in the womb and is created from the same tissue as the Clitoris. We have some of the same parts, we both have a frenulum, males and females that is. We both engorge with blood when excited, we both are sensitive in thigh and groin region, etc. etc. Thus, if I think of how sensitive and enjoyable it is when my frenulum is licked, it is most likely the same for her, same tissue and nerve endings. The woman actually has a protruding part of her clit which has the most nerve endings in it - very sensitive, in fact the hood will drape down over it (I forget the name of it) during arousal to protect the amount of sensitivity.
Knowing what I know about women's bodies, I tend to tease the area first with fingers, slowly caressing her inner thighs, her lower abdomen, and outer lips. Light and soft touches and almost acidnetally, brush the edge ofher clit with a finger or two as I rhytmically and slowly caress her entire area. Not inserting or grabbing, just massaging, caressing and her lips start to bloom like a flower. I look into her eyes and give her a manly and sexy grin to let her know she is in good hands and to lay back and enjoy. I start to use two fingers only as I caress ever so gently her inner lips. I slowly rub the inside of her lips not enough pressure to open her further but enough for her to moan slightly, I reach the pinnacle of clit and do a come hither motion with my fingers against the hood of her clit. At this point she is excited I caress her frenulum and outer lips. Her head lays to the side with eyes closed and she is grabbing a pillow as she clecnhes down with her teeth. I move in with my head and kiss her pubis mounds with peck, still caressing her lips and hood area. I kiss her inner thigs, moving slowly but with rythym and kiss her outer lips. i protrude my tongue and sligtly lick her hood and frenulum. Her legs squeeze slightly on my head. My left hand moves down to lower opening and caresses the outside as my tongue moves in an aice cream motion up and down her clit, slowly and with slight pressure. My right hand moves to abdomen and breasts to caress her entire body and being. I am trying to immerse her in complete sexual tension and pleasure.
My tongue will find its way under her hood to enjoy the essence of her sexuality bringing her to rogasm. I can spend 45 minutes building the speed and tempo.
This is my basic lower level cunninlingus I have three levels, the upper two I typically save for an SO. When I perform them I have had an SO gush when she never gushed before, a very gratifying feeling indeed.
I have read several books, questioned many women and I am a scholar so I learn and the purpose, to me, of oral sex to ensure my partner has fun and intense experience so I do my part in trying to enhance that experience for her.
I think you will find it's YMMV just as how guys like handjobs and BJ's, every woman wants it done differently and the trick is is to find out how each one likes it done to them...ijs
Dont do this, dont do that.. Its just depends on the women.. her body language will tell you.. some like sucking, some dont some like fiv some dont.. it just depends...
Dont do this, dont do that.. Its just depends on the women.. her body language will tell you.. some like sucking, some dont some like fiv some dont.. it just depends...
Originally Posted by Unforgivable
+1
Every woman is different. I think if you learn the art of reading a woman's body language, you'll almost never go wrong.
About the time you think you are king of the "DATY Dynasty", you are thrown a curve by a different lady who likes it just a little bit differently. Lovelyelle's comment about body language is spot-on.
Definitely, much more research is needed, and I'll volunteer to continue to conduct my laboratory studies. "Lab rats" can apply directly...