Finally did it

I finally quit reading what everyone else was doing & made that call. I'm not going to say who I called,but she was physically everything I wanted in a women. Man she had the perfect body & nice little round bottom, but when it came down to it I couldn't do it. I just couldn't get it up. It was the first time in my life I could not get an erection. I just did not feel like she wanted to be with me. I've always felt that women were attracted to me because I go to the gym & work out & even though I'm almost 50 most people think I'm in my 30's & when I go out women do flirt with me. Since I have a girlfriend & we have been togeather for about 20 years I flirt back, but that is as far is at gets because I don't want to hurt my girlfriend. I thought this would be perfect since I could experience some one different & they would never tell one me. I don't know, I just thought it would be different & more fun than it actually was. Well Thanks for letting me vent a little bit.

I wouldn't give up just yet. I don't think there's a guy here who wasn't nervous their first time with a provider. With all the butterflies in my stomach, tt was like having my first time ever (I assume it wasn't your first time ever!) with a woman all over again! Hell, I still get that feeling (in a limited since) when I see someone new.

You know it was just like my 1st time being with a women. It was weird being that nervous, but the bad part was that I could tell she just wanted me to do my thing & leave. It just didn't turn me on. Maybe I just need to be with someone who can make me feel like they really want me even if it is just a job to them.

More a Coed topic.

Moved to the proper forum.

That's the difference between a good provider and a great provider. A good provider will act like they are having a great time and act like she is enjoying it. But a great provider actually does enjoy this and is actually having a great time.

Don't give up. There are several ladies in this fantasy world that won't just fake it but will truly enjoy you and your company. And it will make all the difference in the world.

^^AGREE W/JEZZ!!

That's the difference between a good provider and a great provider. A good provider will act like they are having a great time and act like she is enjoying it. But a great provider actually does enjoy this and is actually having a great time.

Don't give up. There are several ladies in this fantasy world that won't just fake it but will truly enjoy you and your company. And it will make all the difference in the world. Originally Posted by Naughty_Jezabelle

Perfect response.

I think it was more the fantasy of thinking about doing it that I enjoyed and than when I finally got the nerve to do it the fantasy was gone. I don't think it was her fault. If I do, do it again I think it would have to be for an hour, so there is more time. Thanks for all of the input.

I agree with jez and your are correct in that you will not get to know someone well enough in less than an hour. I also need the personal connection and have met ladies that make me feel great.

However, if you are happy with your girlfriend save your money. This is not a fantasy you have to experience.

An hour for sure. 30min barely gets you naked. I've had the same problems as you and there is a whole thread devoted to it. Finally hooked up with Cialis and it works wonders. You would be in good hands if you hooked up with any of the ladies here who responded to your post. I've never met Naughty Jezabelle, but I have met LexxiDD and can tell you she will work her butt off trying to get you off. She understands completely. Another lady who is very good, but not full service, is Avery Ashton. She's a registered massage therapist and starts off with a half hour of massage which really relaxes you and gets you started, after the massage she works on the happy ending. Be sure to tell the ladies ahead of time that you're having a problem and they'll work with you. Good luck!!

Jezabelle's and Laz's responses are perfect. If this is something you feel that you really want/need to do, you need to read the reviews and find a provider that gets consistently good reviews and schedule at least an hour visit for the first time.

To the point Laz made if you are happy with your girlfriend of 20 years, you may not be able to do it because of feelings of remorse or guilt. ED pills may help with the deed, but how will you feel afterward? I would suggest you search yourself and see if this is something you really want to get into or not. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

darter posted in part:
".....I would suggest you search yourself and see if this is something you really want to get into or not....."

sage advice from a tenured member.....

.....and there are truly some wonderful ladies here for you to consider

If you don't see it yet, Jez is one of the great companions we have in this community.

Aww thank you merentha. you are a sweetheart and your oPinion means a great deal to me.

i understand were coming from ....and just time to know what you what in live with work,or personal.