new here, and questions.

I am new to this site, and could use any advice. First it seems like alot of the providers require references. how do you get those if they all need them? Second, does anyone have any recommended providers for a newbie? Thanks.

Check the ladies showcase's and see which one's advertise Newbie Friendly. Then pick the one's you might would like to see and contact her. Be prepared to give her info required. Also you could join P411 or DateCheck. They also verify clients for ladies also.

+1 on P411

P411 Everytime, Anytime...........

First, welcome. You've come to the right place to learn and have some fun.

The broader answer to your question about how to get experience is that you have to become known inside the hobby world. That doesn't mean you have to be known linked to your personal real-life information but you have to become trusted. There are several ways to do this.

The previous posters have suggested P411 and that's indeed an excellent resource. Searching the forums for newbie friendly providers is something else you'll want to do. I would personally recommend you stay with the ladies on this board. Branching out into other avenues like BackPage as a beginner can be dangerous. The more you participate here, the easier you'll find it.

And, of course, we're always here to help.

All the best.

Do your homework and make the Search tab your friend, or just continue to download porn.

Search, search, search, and search. Oh and have fun and kiss your money goodbye.

sometimes a provider will work with work references....research and find a newbie friendly one!And yes,p411 is a great tool!
have fun!