Stealing Casanova's Harem...

Noticing your black book list is getting shorter by the session? It's getting so desperate that you are starting to pick newbies and travelers even though you wished your favorites would just contact you back.

If you want to expand your talents to keeping a happy harem of talented ladies eager to get your call, then feast your eyes on this information and incorporate it.
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Use your "Big Boy" skills to communicate clearly.

Ladies love it when you take the extra time to spell correctly and are clear about your intentions of meeting. Things like letting her know that you are running late also promotes the air of a man she can rely on. Making a woman feel secure with just your words is mental foreplay for women.

Getting her revved on your looks:

Forget being buff and focus on scent and basic style.

Take a day to scrub up real good and go into a perfume section at the mall. Ask for sugar pheromone based scents and get the ladies opinions on how it smells on you. Once you've got a scent that gets the tester ladies attention, you know you've got a winner.

While your at the mall, go to a department store that has clothing that appeals to you and ask for a sales person to help pick out a good style for you. Go with their opinion on a good casual to club selection and try them on. If you've got a female associate that is excited over one particular outfit, buy it. If it's not your usual style, say you got it for Christmas and have to wear it at least once, or whatever excuse works for you whenever someone asks.

On your day of "play", scrub yourself clean all over. Trim your nethers enough to take down the roughage (only shave if you have fine soft hair). Place a small daub of cologne in the center of your chest and down below. Shave your face baby smooth.

Throw on your "go get them tiger" clothes and head straight over to your ladies domain.

Making an entrance, you place your gift on the table to increase her feelings of security with you.

The moment you're in her room, speak your hello's deeply and look into her eyes as you press up against her and give her a soft caressing hug. Then gently place her on the bed, sitting right next to her.

This is where your skills in mental foreplay (read a harlequin novel) come in handy. Stroking her upstairs, leads to a very wet downstairs. Women are very sensual, erotic creatures. Everything about them is slow, sensual foreplay from the conversations to the soft, deep kisses.

Scrap what you've learned in the "textbook" of masturbating to get off quickly and porn-star "pounding her till she drops". She'll be left totally unfulfilled and never wanting to see you again. Stroking the sexy sensual side out of her is the way to keep her begging for more and you feeling like a Super Stud.

Besides, the concept of paying for use of a warm body to just "masturbate" seems kinda wasteful doesn't it? Might as well order one of those expensive life-like dolls and put your change into that.

Now Take Control.

Slowly undress her until she’s naked. Look her up and down showing your admiration for her body. Always look back at her eyes after you look at her body so you can connect with her soul. This will connect you with her on a very deep level.

Then you push her very slowly to lie down on the bed. Start kissing her body up and down while alternating with little kisses on her lips. Don't miss kissing the back of her knee, her thighs, the back of her neck, her butt, and her very sensitive lower back. Press your body against hers when you give her mouth sweet kisses. Remember that these are dry kisses with your lips softened, not pursed. No froggy slobbering!

Now whisper in her ear “I am just getting started with you.” Breathe in her ear. Let a little moan go in her ear. This will get her extremely hot. Feeling the pressure of your body against hers as you’re doing this will turn her on even more.

Notice you haven't even started licking her pussy yet. Making her wait, makes her dripping wet with anticipation.

When you kiss her nipples, remember that some women like them nibbled on gently, some women like them kissed, while other women like them licked. Find out how she likes her nipples sucked, kissed and licked, this is also part of this exciting Venus exploration.

Kiss her inner thighs then work your way around her vagina lips by kissing them ever so slowly. Take your tongue and work it around the outside of her vagina lips, slowly circling around the entire outside of her vagina.

Now take your tongue and slowly circle it on the inside of her vagina lips. Every time you circle past her clit, she will let out a sigh or a moan. Press and spread your tongue and lips over her labia and clit and push in a downward, slightly circular motion. Don't get too carried away and start painfully scraping your stubbled face into this area. She will cut your visit to this sweet nectar zone short.

Avoid spreading her lips and going directly on her clitoris. There are over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris. Did you know that once you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will actually come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? Just use lips and tongue.

Once the you've made the clitoris fully stimulated and erect, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.

The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the belly button side. There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With
your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or putting your cock in and rubbing the G spot with the head. When it swells to your touch, you know you've hit pay-dirt.

At this point she’s dying to have sex with you.

Grind up against her. Let her feel how turned on you are. Kiss her deeply and push yourself deep inside of her. Go slowly swiveling your hips in a circular pattern, so that you are caressing every inch of her vagina. Grinding against her while you are doing that will send her already swollen clit into a blissful explosion of ecstasy.

Once you feel her vagina clamp down on you while she's coming, flip her on top of you and let her ride. She will ride how she likes it and this will give you an indication of what you need to do next to pleasure her. If she's riding fast and pushing your cock towards the G-Spot area, than you know that she'll want to be taken from behind or from the front at the end of the bed. If she's pushing you in deep and grinding on you, than you are going to want to do that to her in any position.

When you are starring at that glorious rump while doing her from behind, kiss her neck while doing a breathy moan every once in a while and she will feel even more connected to you.

You've now accomplished the female's standard of ultimate pleasure and of course you're pleasured too. Truly pleasuring a woman releases Oxytocin, a hormone that makes a woman feel connected unconditionally with you.

Making a grand exit, you add a little extra to her gift and sweep her in your arms, kiss her softly and deeply and breathe a "Till we meet again" as you hold her gaze going out the door. Send a short Thank You about a day later.

Little more info to give you an advantage:

Women generally take about 20 minutes to reach their first orgasm, but follow the steps mentioned above, you can get her there without attacking just her clit for that long.

Once she's reached her first orgasm, she'll be able to orgasm a few more times before she gets sensitive and raw. Literally going away at it for more than an hour, with no breaks for talking, caressing, and catching your breath, can leave her chaffed, raw, and bitter at you. Not using lube can do that too.

Viagra and Cialis users refer to Robin Williams take : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aFM11SmoxfI


Conversation pointers: Don't get too clingy and want to know too much about her in the first visit (eg. "What's your real name?). You'll rip that security vibe she likes so much right out and you be back to square one. Besides, women like mystery and intrigue. Develop your teasing skills by sharing an interesting yet relatable experience you've had and sit back and enjoy letting her talk about her similar life experience. Don't forget to hold back some of your life's stories for a later date, even though you've got the conversation rocking now.

Building that curiosity in a woman is like showing a toy mouse to a cat. She'll be impelled to chase.

If you are dying to send an steamy, affectionate, not related to plans email to her, do so close to the time you you are planning on seeing her. When you've got a woman mentally stroked up, you've got to be prepared to go over there and finish the job, to prevent her from getting her own equivalent of blue balls.

With each lady you've mesmorized, your harem grows, and you have finally graduated from a failing Porn-star to a Casanova. You might have to spring for a bigger black book...
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Jules Milano
www.julesmilano.rare-courtesan.com
Advice is based on my favorite personal experiences I love to enjoy again and again.

This was just a post that i saw in the oklahoma forum, from one of the sweetest ladies around... We can all learn a thing or two from this one!

seems like alot a work...only looking for an hour of fun , not a day
long adventure

I think it says a lot about what kind of attitudes we ladies want and don't want. Well written!

Thank you for the post. I appreciate any chance to learn from the ladies' point of view.

A day sounds good to me, can't wait to improve my skills.

Sidebar-what an awesome photo gallery!

TY

If you want to expand your talents to keeping a happy harem of talented ladies eager to get your call, then feast your eyes on this information and incorporate it.

Jules Milano
www.julesmilano.rare-courtesan.com
Advice is based on my favorite personal experiences I love to enjoy again and again. Originally Posted by julesmilano

Eeek.

I may be too intimidated to ever date again....

Thank you for a well written reminder of the path to reaching that peak.

I've been there before, but the fog of some pressing issues had caused me to lose sight of it.