Have you ever been passed?

nushi's Avatar
  • nushi
  • 04-17-2012, 11:07 AM
So, I see her ad on BP (also a member here). Ad says I can call or text, so I text within an hour of her post:

Hi, saw your ad, would like to meet, and then gave a brief physical description. She texted back, "I'll pass".

Did I violate protocol or was it my description? Something else? Could my number be on a "do not see" list?

The money is still in my pocket, so no real loss. Guess I'll just stick with my regulars.
levi tab's Avatar
Well at least you didn't waste gas driving to her and then finding out it wasn't going to happen or have a bad session...go spend your hobby funds somewhere else and have fun...
Maybe she got a better offer...
82Vinny's Avatar
Wow that was wayyyy Rude! There could have been a better way to say she'd pass!
I'd kinda like to know who it was via PM so I know who to pass on myself. There are a number of better ways she could have dealt that blow without implying you were the issue.

Signature line: I hope the Coed Section is a lot more than a "Dear John...bite me!" Section Originally Posted by levi tab
Damn Levi, it finally came true. It sounds like that's what happened!
Actually I see it as a rather resplendent response. Left no room for misunderstanding at all.
Why would you give brief physical description ? Have never done this .
LMAO!!! At least you didn't waste your time. There are many reasons why she decided to pass on your offer. Who knows what the heck happened, but at least she didn't string you along to a NCNS.

Plenty of fish in the sea my friend.
handyGiraffe's Avatar
LOL....
Mossman's Avatar
How in the world can you guys think this is anything but rude. She advertises on at least 2 sites that she is available and then with no other explanation she says, "I'll pass". I can think of a dozen different ways that would work better to accomplish the goal. Can't abide rudeness, won't tolerate it. nushi, put her name out there so that those who value civil treatment know who not to call.
raedy4funn45's Avatar
The answer she gave may be considered rude, but at least she didn'y leave him hanging. I would rather "I'll pass" than no answer at all.
handle please-that is what these sites are for, to make an INFORMED decision!!!! which one cannot do without a handle attached to it!
Maybe something u said freaked her out, well, at least u didn't wait around lol
Adrienne Knight's Avatar
Yea that was definitely rude. If she advertises on more than one site, she should know better than to be so rude. If she has restrictions like age, weight, or ethnicity. She should specify that. Saying "I'll pass" in that situation was highly immature, uncalled for, and like we've said… RUDE. You SHOULD put her name out there.