NC/NS Lilyth

I am not a frequent poster but I thought I would post this message to vent a little due to my recent NC/NS with Lilyth Sanders and to my overall frustration with the hobby. I am thinking of giving up the hobby or at least cutting back to just one or two reliable providers after this most recent incident with Lilyth----basically I sent an email last week tuesday to make an appt for saturday--I had recently let my preferred 411 account lapse but had seen lilyth in the last month or so---I sent the request and she asked me to give some additional detail of our most recent session--I did and she ok'd the saturday appt-----then she nc/ns the appt after I drove up from Wichita!
I have called and emailed and have received no response as of yet---in my opinion if she was concerned with my making the appt outside of preferred 411 she should have said so since I offered to give new screening info if necessary in my tuesday email---and if something important came up that led to a cancellation she should have at least responded to my messages to let me know-preferably before i drove 2.5 hours each way! I am really sick of providers not respecting my time especially when I schedule something several days in advance. I recently had a similiar thing happen with a preferred 411 scheduled appt with Bristol --but she at least sent a message an hour before the scheduled time saying she started her period early or whatever. Anyway---I think I am done wasting my time on sketchy providers---just wanted to vent a little!@

What would lead you to believe that a provider could take 10 seconds out of her time to give you a call that wouuld save you $100 in gas and a 5 hour drive? Shit will change when thier phone quits ringing and rent is due.

This thread is going to be good!

This thread is going to be good! Originally Posted by The DarkSide

And here I have already ate my budgeted allotment of popcorn this month!!

Huh.... Well, I don't think Lilyth does weekends often. Ur speaking of 2 highly respected providers.

I am sorry but those two providers have a lot of respect around here even though I have not seen either. I would be more inclined to trust in their history then the history of a handle opened the day or two before this post.

Sorry but I don't put much stock into this post.

That has been a problem here with respected providers shit not stinking. Either they step up thier game or suffer the fallout.
Maybe they take it as help not hurtful. It is hard to get excited about a meet when there is a good chance it is not happening.
It does help the ladies that take care to be on thier game and keep the line open even if they are running late it only takes 10 seconds to call. If guys did not keep thier appointments how long does it take for a provider to blast him???

I'm not sure why I'm being questioned about the authenticity of my post since I have nothing really to gain from it. In case you're wondering I had just deactivated an old handle jdmaris---but I was an aspd member since 2006 or 2007-I also had a p411 account with several years of activity, and around 10 provider ok's. I even had some early hobby experiences in the mid-90's at TLC--so I've been around for a while. I think anyone who's been doing this for long has had similiar experiences to what I described--even with the best providers. Is it to much to ask for a quick email/text message to say they can't make it?

I am sorry but those two providers have a lot of respect around here even though I have not seen either. I would be more inclined to trust in their history then the history of a handle opened the day or two before this post.

Sorry but I don't put much stock into this post. Originally Posted by KenMonk

You may want to look around in some of the other forums... Seems like this is occurring with some frequency with one of the aforementioned "highly respected providers". There is no excuse for this type of thing IMO.

You may want to look around in some of the other forums... Seems like this is occurring with some frequency with one of the aforementioned "highly respected providers". There is no excuse for this type of thing IMO. Originally Posted by emplover

A ncns by Lilyth is very rare......the latter mentioned "former KC teasure" provider is beginning to get quite the reputation as a flake who doesnt give a shit about her good clients or potential ones...and will ncns you without any concern for you

A ncns by Lilyth is very rare......the latter mentioned "former KC teasure" provider is beginning to get quite the reputation as a flake who doesnt give a shit about her good clients or potential ones...and will ncns you without any concern for you Originally Posted by BigDeal

Playing devil's advocate, how do you know for certain that a NCNS by her is rare? You haven't reviewed her, so I'm guessing you haven't seen her and unless you're booking her appointments, answering her phone.....you don't know anything about her appointments.

Some of the responses in this thread is a good reason why some guys do not post NCNS or bait n' switch bullshit that ladies start doing.


I've always been a big advocate of giving the lady 48 hours to contact the client before the client calls her out on her behavior on the board.

Playing devil's advocate, how do you know for certain that a NCNS by her is rare? You haven't reviewed her, so I'm guessing you haven't seen her and unless you're booking her appointments, answering her phone.....you don't know anything about her appointments.

Some of the responses in this thread is a good reason why some guys do not post NCNS or bait n' switch bullshit that ladies start doing.


I've always been a big advocate of giving the lady 48 hours to contact the client before the client calls her out on her behavior on the board. Originally Posted by MsElena

Actually if youll see my reviews I have seen her and communicate with her frequently.

I cant remember a ncns by her at any time recently (now I did not research that so Im basing that off memory...LOL)

This thread is going to be good! Originally Posted by The DarkSide

+1

Sorry for your lost time and frustrations. A simple text/email/call can clear this up. Say whatever, something is better than nothing.

Actually if youll see my reviews I have seen her and communicate with her frequently.

I cant remember a ncns by her at any time recently (now I did not research that so Im basing that off memory...LOL) Originally Posted by BigDeal

My mistake, you did see her. Sorry for that error.


You think a lady is going to tell you the client that she NCNS'd a guy? LOL NO. As I said, unless you're booking a ladies appointments, answering her phones and emails, you have no idea what the lady is doing.

My mistake, you did see her. Sorry for that error.


You think a lady is going to tell you the client that she NCNS'd a guy? LOL NO. As I said, unless you're booking a ladies appointments, answering her phones and emails, you have no idea what the lady is doing. Originally Posted by MsElena

No prob Im just saying on what Ive seen here on ECCIE I havent recalled seeing a ncns by Lilyth...I could be wrong....I cant remember what I did 10 minutes ago