ok im still fairly new to all this, but is there ever any concern from anybody on here at some of the providers and users may just be the fuzz lurking and plotting schemes which may ultimately lead to a very unpleasant time.
ive had my own badluck with craigslist many many years ago. the good thing for me was my case was indeed dropped do the the ignorance on the mpd.
ive also had to act on my gut feelings with a provider on here who also posted on bp. pulling away from that scene at the very last second. very unpleasant situation.
anyways what are ya'lls thoughts on this. i know im not the only who has thought this before
- rawdel
- 04-22-2012, 11:21 AM
- CryptKicker
- 04-22-2012, 12:06 PM
Moved to Coed since this isn't really an alert...
- CryptKicker
- 04-22-2012, 12:08 PM
ok im still fairly new to all this, but is there ever any concern from anybody on here at some of the providers and users may just be the fuzz lurking and plotting schemes which may ultimately lead to a very unpleasant time.
ive had my own badluck with craigslist many many years ago. the good thing for me was my case was indeed dropped do the the ignorance on the mpd.
ive also had to act on my gut feelings with a provider on here who also posted on bp. pulling away from that scene at the very last second. very unpleasant situation.
anyways what are ya'lls thoughts on this. i know im not the only who has thought this before Originally Posted by rawdel
It is always a possibility that someone on this board is with LE. That is why you have to screen and use your gut. Use verified providers only with reviews if you are worried.
- Chica Chaser
- 04-22-2012, 02:48 PM
What Crypt said, plus its well worth the investment to join P411 to get yourself verified and screened here;
https://www.preferred411.com/index.cfm?fx=Client
Once you have cleared that, your options and comfort level will open right up.
Stick with verified and reviews ladies only. No Reviews = No Date! Stay far away from BP ladies that you cannot find reviews of on this and other reputable sites. There are guys that like to be a trailblazer and see these unknown ladies (and there ARE some gems out there) but as a newbie to this, I highly recommend you steer clear until you have some real experience under your belt. Google searches on BP listed names, phone numbers and email addresses can be a real life-saver.
Also, get a "hobby" phone for ALL hobby communications and activities. An anonymous and untraceable, pay by the minute phone. You can get one at WalMart to Walgreens. The kind that you by refill minutes and that you can dispose of at a moments notice if necessary. Pay for it an everything else with cash only, untraceable.
https://www.preferred411.com/index.cfm?fx=Client
Once you have cleared that, your options and comfort level will open right up.
Stick with verified and reviews ladies only. No Reviews = No Date! Stay far away from BP ladies that you cannot find reviews of on this and other reputable sites. There are guys that like to be a trailblazer and see these unknown ladies (and there ARE some gems out there) but as a newbie to this, I highly recommend you steer clear until you have some real experience under your belt. Google searches on BP listed names, phone numbers and email addresses can be a real life-saver.
Also, get a "hobby" phone for ALL hobby communications and activities. An anonymous and untraceable, pay by the minute phone. You can get one at WalMart to Walgreens. The kind that you by refill minutes and that you can dispose of at a moments notice if necessary. Pay for it an everything else with cash only, untraceable.
- babarumraisin
- 04-22-2012, 05:11 PM
The simple facts are these, you can do quite a bit to reduce your risk however you can never make this hobby 100% safe. It is illegal therefore you not only have LE looking for you, but those who know that if they do something to you your likelihood of going to the authorities is just about zero as well. This goes for the guys as well as the girls. This isn't golf or stamp collecting, it exists outside the realm of what some consider "polite" society.
Educate yourself, I am always struck by how many people in the hobby think that if they ask someone "are you a cop", that if that person is a cop they have to say so. Do your homework, google every ad. Check every phone number. And get paranoid, realize that if something is too good to be true it probably is. If an ad seems odd stay away. Always have a line of escape open, knock on a door and it isn't the girl in the ad, or something seems wrong, have an excuse and the discipline to walk away. "Sorry, this is the wrong room, my mistake", or "oh, I must have wanted the other Holiday Inn."
But remember, you can never make this 100% safe. The only way to do that is to travel to one of the counties in Nevada that offer legal brothels.
Educate yourself, I am always struck by how many people in the hobby think that if they ask someone "are you a cop", that if that person is a cop they have to say so. Do your homework, google every ad. Check every phone number. And get paranoid, realize that if something is too good to be true it probably is. If an ad seems odd stay away. Always have a line of escape open, knock on a door and it isn't the girl in the ad, or something seems wrong, have an excuse and the discipline to walk away. "Sorry, this is the wrong room, my mistake", or "oh, I must have wanted the other Holiday Inn."
But remember, you can never make this 100% safe. The only way to do that is to travel to one of the counties in Nevada that offer legal brothels.
- Mikeznice
- 04-24-2012, 01:46 PM
All of this is sage advice. Arrive early and look around. We all know what an unmarked car looks like and a quick glance in the grill will show lights if you are in a parking lot arriving. Trust your gut. Like they said, if it doesn't feel right then bailout rather than take the chance that you have to BAIL OUT. Nobody in this "hobby" can ever feel great about the meeting for the first time every time.
Like they said, read reviews, contact the provider, explain that you might be nervous, hell they might be too. It's part of the game, the nerves make the sex that much more fun, but being safe is a good thing for you AND the provider.
Babarumraisin has it right, look and make sure you have a way out. It's not always LE that you need to be careful of, sometimes it might be a pimp, boyfriend or a combination of the two that is lurking and watching and wating for you to "get to feeling easy".
Last but not least, be kind to the ladies. Remember that they too are going to be wondering about you as much as you are about them and a little kindness, a little thoughtfulness to their feelings will go a long way to make it fun for all.
JMHO
Like they said, read reviews, contact the provider, explain that you might be nervous, hell they might be too. It's part of the game, the nerves make the sex that much more fun, but being safe is a good thing for you AND the provider.
Babarumraisin has it right, look and make sure you have a way out. It's not always LE that you need to be careful of, sometimes it might be a pimp, boyfriend or a combination of the two that is lurking and watching and wating for you to "get to feeling easy".
Last but not least, be kind to the ladies. Remember that they too are going to be wondering about you as much as you are about them and a little kindness, a little thoughtfulness to their feelings will go a long way to make it fun for all.
JMHO
- Chica Chaser
- 04-24-2012, 06:49 PM
Here is a thread that should help you out quite a bit too
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178982
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178982
- safire_sweet
- 04-26-2012, 06:45 AM
Here is a thread that should help you out quite a bit too
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178982 Originally Posted by Chica Chaser
