Not Newbie Friendly?

Why do some providers label themselves not newbie friendly? I would think in the hobby everyone would be open minded, and lending a helping hand to the rookies. I mean, everyone had to crawl before they could walk, right?

It's for their protection. There are providers that will see you, once you have a couple of references your good to go.

Ok, thats fair eneough and makes sense.

I am newbie friendly after you pass my screening. I will be going down south really really soon.

I am newbie friendly after you pass my screening. I will be going down south really really soon. Originally Posted by Majestycctx

Now Majesty going down south could have more than one meaning

I see newbies at times if I get a bad vibe over the phone I wont see them. I do travel to the valley a lot may relocate back for a bit hmmmm you will never know lol..

Now Majesty going down south could have more than one meaning Originally Posted by jughead1171

I am one of those Overly Cautious Ladies. I just feel a bit more safe after someone else has taken that chance. Let me also say that after time off, Even I came back with Newbie Status. P411, Writing reviews, Posting and making yourself known is a great Start.

And just because I haven't reviewed anyone here, doesn't mean I am new to the courtesan game. I'm just new to Eccie !

There's a big difference with being open minded, and yet not seeing a newbie without proper screening/references.

Why do some providers label themselves not newbie friendly? I would think in the hobby everyone would be open minded, and lending a helping hand to the rookies. I mean, everyone had to crawl before they could walk, right? Originally Posted by thequietguy

The guys that raise my suspisions are the ones that have been on here since like 2010 and have done no posts, no reviews have no refrrences these are the ones I avoid and some will say theyre new lol... Its just a bit more risky I gave a newbiew a chance and he robbed me so now I refuse to see newbies.

I used to see newbies in the past. Having read different threads of bad things happen to the ladies, I get paranoid.

I am newbie friendly, I still have a few ways to check out new guys without a direct reference here on ECCIE or P411, thus, I see a few newbies each week at my InCall without any issues. I just can not be paranoid about it, I am into this lifestyle for the fun and the sex and can not waste too much time being worried over something that can not be 100 per cent free of danger or I would be doing something else, someplace else.

Don't we as hobbyist also do some screening and are not always newbie friendly towards newbie providers? How many times has someone posted, "Gee, I want to see her, but I'm waiting for someone else to TOFTT and write a review."

These ladies are putting themselves out there, but what if was reversed and we had to post pics and advertise and the ladies were the ones to pick us. So If they don't want to be newbie friendly, it's their right and more power to them.

The way I see it, it's like a game (with great benefits) and my goal is to get to the point that I can get my references and have a provider sincerely look forward to seeing me. I, for one, prefer to remain as UTR as possible and understand it will just take me longer to get to that point.

Seeing a provider is a privilege not a right.

Thank you, Rosiedaie (you look amazing btw) and every other lady that is newbie friendly and giving us newbies a chance to prove ourselves worthy. And all those ladies that are not "newbie friendly", i'll see you someday.

Ladies, you all take care and be as cautious as you need to be. Love you all.

Just my dos centavos.

I tried to give newbies a chance last time I did the bitch robbed me so its hard for me to have trust with them. Not all are bad but its a huge risk we have to take to see them.