what matters to you guys and ladies

what's important to you in your partner for bcd fun.

me personally any of these can kill it for me if not done
smooth hairless legs
nails done (natural or fake) chipped nail polish pisses me off lol
fresh smells anywhere I decide to smell
looks like current pictures if a lot of wieght was lost or gained time to update the photos
whatever I saw is what I was hoping for
hair should not look she just woke up or just finished a session

personally I prefer a partner that takes care of herself even more than size matters.

Hygiene is no. 1 in my book. Nothing kills a mood faster than a lack of freshness or body odor! As for hair/grooming, I'm neutral so long as it isn't a wild forest I have to cut through to get to the holy land! I actually kinda like/miss a little hair down below, but smooth is just as nice.

Next thing would be accurate photos, if the lady provides any at all. It would suck to show up and be greeted by someone barely recognizable since the photos were so old.

Outside of that, I'm pretty laid-back. I don't care if the lady doesn't want to do her hair up all nice and fancy, or put on glitter and fingernail polish. If she has great BCD skills, complemented by a good attitude and demeanor, that can easily be overcome.

In this order:

Hygiene
Attraction (me to her but visa versa is a bonus)
Personality
Sense of Humor
Attitude
Skills
Looks (As long as there is an attraction what do looks matter anyway)

Hygiene
personality/chemistry
skills
looks

It's pretty damn simple.
That he be respectful, kind and know how to treat a lady like a lady should be treated. To adore her body, and make her feel beautiful under his touch/kiss.
That he not shave his face and he not smoke.

All else is common sense that as adults we should already know how to bath our private parts so no need to tell a man to do so.
He can be toned/fit, or a cuddly teddy bear. A man for me is a man who's comfortable in his skin and embraces his sexuality and allows himself to be a wonderful lover while we're together. Whether he's lost or gained weight, or missing a limb.
You don't need to have skills, or great looks, nor outstanding personality, nor to be a wonderful lover.
It's those simple things that MATTER most to this *woman*.

1. Attitude
2. Attitude
3. Skills
4. Looks

what's important to you in your partner for bcd fun. Originally Posted by black5uperman

Well, if I'm there already we've covered that I like what I saw and or read about the Provider.

- Attitude, you can tell alot when you first enter the room and are greeted by the Provider (as for me, I'm there to have a fun time and I certainly hope the Provider is there for the same reason)

- Hygiene, anyone can look at my reviews and see that I may pretty much end up lick EVERYWHERE... (as for my hygiene, I personally like to take a shower as soon as I walk in that way the Provider knows that I am clean and fresh)

- Lingerie/Street Clothes/Casual Dress, no big preference since it's coming off in the end. Lingerie, always nice to see a lady wearing a sexy little outfit. Street Clothes gives the illusion of a rendezvous with an old friend, but there is one Provider that I've seen that normally wears a casual dress with high heels or a very nice blouse with nice slacks and high heels and that normally turns me into a kid in a candy store (Hi Addison ).

It's pretty damn simple.
That he be respectful, kind and know how to treat a lady like a lady should be treated. To adore her body, and make her feel beautiful under his touch/kiss.
That he not shave his face and he not smoke.

All else is common sense that as adults we should already know how to bath our private parts so no need to tell a man to do so.
He can be toned/fit, or a cuddly teddy bear. A man for me is a man who's comfortable in his skin and embraces his sexuality and allows himself to be a wonderful lover while we're together. Whether he's lost or gained weight, or missing a limb.
You don't need to have skills, or great looks, nor outstanding personality, nor to be a wonderful lover.
It's those simple things that MATTER most to this *woman*. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

So you dont want the man to shave --- or am I misreading that?

You read correctly!

I don't like my dates to shave. My skin will thank you!
I'll gladly, gently shave you afterwards. I'm very skilled in doing so.

So you dont want the man to shave --- or am I misreading that? Originally Posted by BoomShakaLaka

My two cents? Dear God, this is Mikaela....Please, bring me a grown-up.

Guess that falls under "attitude"...biggest consideration by far for me, too, OY. You need a relatively thick skin, a sense of humor, (maybe a shot or two, lol), and be able to channel your inner smartass and ready to roll with whatever, if you really want to get me off.

As far as hygiene? Do as your mama (fingers AND toes tightly crossed) taught you...too easy! On a personal level, really not into the shaved down below a la metrosexual look, but, hey, I hear lotsa ladies love it-just not one of 'em Oh, Men of SA, can we not find a [Mr.] Happy medium, lol,...aaand as long as it doesn't turn into a scavenger hunt, either, we're good to go

No one or two day beards, either, but rarely come across those...haven't seen too many five o'clocks either, but just the same...your face should feel like the palm of your hand, if you rock the cleanshaven look on the daily, in order to be intimate without causing a woman discomfort.

M.

Hygiene
Patience
Skills
tcb skills
Looks
thigh high stockings

Some of the things that matter whether or not I see you again:

Chemistry - does not mean we are supposed to be together, it means that we should see each other again.

Hygiene - for obvious reasons... because you'd be the only one I know who likes ass flavored kisses.

Attitude - I'd much rather have text tags, emails, and phone calls with a pleasant person who is just as interested in pleasing me as I am him.

-just my 0.02

My two cents? Dear God, this is Mikaela....Please, bring me a grown-up. Originally Posted by xoxo mikaela

Nailed It!

Hygiene - for obvious reasons... because you'd be the only one I know who likes ass flavored kisses. Originally Posted by BuxomBrown

Hahahahaha!!!!!!! Funniest thing I've heard all day....

NO FAT SA MEN!! (JK...lol!)

1. Good hygiene
2. Sense of humor
3. Patient and Respectful
4. No five o'clock shadow (HURTS)
5. Security conscious