This topic has been brought up before, but I love to beat a dead horse. (OK, not really)
I have done and do offer half hour sessions to repeat clients or regulars. I really don't want to do half hour sessions for the following reasons:
I don't wan't to get burnt out by having to entertain 2x clients.
I am GFE, you can't be GFE in a half hour. My sessions usally go overtime.
If you have a half hour, first time visit with me, you will not be able to indulge in the total Heidilynn experience.
With that being said, "Is there a mad rush of half hour providers in BR?"
I never do 1/2 hour meeting. The only reason I can see anyone wanting that is cause its cheaper. I guess if u wanted u could offer a discount for repeat clients. But other then that I say keep it at least an hour and keep it total GFE
lol--good points!
I have done halfhour appts but they are mainly just a whirlwind....
I do not think "my type" sessions are best experienced in a half hour!
Heidi, I have to admit I have never had a half hour session. It has never appealed to me. I like to spend more time with a lady than a half hour. I actually prefer 90 minutes to an hour.
With that being said, "Is there a mad rush of half hour providers in BR?"
Originally Posted by heidilynnla
No half hours here.
I NEVER do 1/2 hour sessions. I fact I like the meetings to go multi-hours.
hell i probably spend at least a half hour of any session down yonder. how is a man to get his vitimins and still get his rocks off with just a half hour? never considered it and never will.
Lol it was just weird how many requests I got for hh in baton rouge. As I said, I've done them but not my thing.
I have recently started requesting a half hour the first time I see a new provider. The main reason is so I can get a basic idea of her before I dedicate extra time and money on someone that I may not click with. I have had a couple of experiances over the past few months where I left an appt feeling less than satisfied. For me personally , I am looking for a GFE of at least an hour or longer with a regular provider that I can trust and feel comfortable with. On a first meeting I can get a general idea if the things I enjoy, kissing, French , passion will be met by that provider. By only investing a half hour on my first visit I will know if a longer session is on the horizon. It can be a catch 22 as well. I also know that a provider who is having to see twice as many clients will eventually have a reduced level of service. I guess it would be up to the provider to screen the requested 1/2 hour requests and decide if it is a " test" date with possibility of getting a repeat client or just some cheap guy who wants to get laid and go for the least amount of cash. But with all that being said, I would never request a short visit with you, your reputation and level of service are without question.
I like the longer sessions myself (2 hours, up to overnights).
While I enjoy the sex, to me that is only a part of the experience - I like to get to know the person a little as well.
Even when I was younger (which, incidentally seems like an AWFULLY long time ago), I was not a "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" kind of person - not to say I've never done that, just saying that I generally enjoy the longer sessions.
Regarding the demand for 1/2 hour sessions in BRLA, maybe it's something in the water. lol
I can understand from the woman's perspective why she would not want to do a half-hour. However, I almost always schedule a half-hour when I see someone new, just to see if it is worth booking an hour or more in the future w/her. If we have an good time the first time, I'll probably come back--whether for another half or a whole (and I do on occasion schedule hour or multi-hour sessions w/a girl, but ONLY one I've seen before and ONLY if it's someone I really like). It's difficult--budget is definitely a factor for me, just as I'm sure it is w/most people, so it's a way to make sure that if you don't click, you aren't out more than you can afford for a bad experience.
Frankly, the other reason I book a half-hour is now I'm older, multis are no longer part of the equation for me. But I'm a meat-and-potatoes person anyway--not really into a GFE. I just want someone clean, polite & sober. Sometimes that takes some doing itself, w/o GFE in addition! I understand the women who are providing hour or multi-hour sessions wouldn't want to do halfs--but they're giving a completely different experience than what I'm normally looking for.
- Paven
- 06-09-2012, 02:32 PM
Shoot sometimes my meet and greet time goes for a half an hour lol. I'm not into the fast and furious stuff myself. I like to take my time.
Plus I always see in reviews 30 minute session but went way over, hmmm seems like a good way to have someone take advantage of you but get all the acronyms in that they want for less $. Don't sell yourselves short ladies
work smarter not harder, just my .02.
I'm older than a lot of hobbyists... I gave up on multi-pops years ago. Add that to the fact that I pop quickly with women other than my SO, and half-hour sessions are perfect.
I wonder what providers would think of this scenario......
What if I booked a half hour or up to a 2 hour session with the possibility of an overnight. Sort of like a lil 30 minute "sampler." Id put her half hour rate on the nightstand and put her posted "possible" donation rates for overnights under the hotel lamp. That way if her service lacks the attributes I require for it I take relatively low risk than to pay her full overnight rate and merely tolerating her service acumen.
If at the end of the 30 minute session I felt she was the real deal and overnight worthy Id ask her to stay.....sorta like those reality shows where the chicks keep a wine glass and stay in the house for next weeks episode.......
I was wondering if and when the client declined the overnight with the lady would she show ill will by not providing a reference, or not giving a p411 provider ok, etc. due to silent frustration.
Do you ladies and gents think this appetizer sampler tryout thingy would fly straight like a pig, or just be crooked bacon?
Since a lot of provider say they don't like to openly advertise HH availiability and only offer it to their regulars due to the stigma of the provider attached to it..........how would you react to the reverse situation.
@Gimmie_That I sort of get the idea your going for. I offer a sort of pre-appointment "coffee date" that happens in public, in person for which I request a small fee for my time. If we click and the guy can see that he'd like me, then we go on back to my place for the fun stuff for the full donation. Obviously, its not a physical interaction but it usually involves some kissing and hugging, and definitely lets him get an idea of me. If the guy said he just was not interested - which, knock on wood has not happened yet - I might be personally a little hurt but I have to acknowledge that he did nothing for me to not approve him later on.
In response to the OP - I feel like good work would probably be wasted on just 30mins. Honestly, when a man assumes I can only make him "pop" once, I take that as a personal insult.
Plus, that's just such a rush, and you'd have to watch the clock...or set a timer! Sex with an egg timer? Ew.